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9 Ways to Tell If Your Relationship Is A Healthy Slow Cooker Or A Hijackal Pressure Cooker


Who wants to live in a pressure cooker? No one goes out and says, “I want to live with anxiety, hyper-vigilance, stress, and uncertainty. Give me that relationship!” Well, no one who cares about themselves does, right? Today, I’m using the contrasts between a slow cooker and a pressure cooker to highlight just what I mean. Most of us have one or the other–maybe, both–in our kitchens. We know what they do. Have you ever thought about slow cookers and pressure cookers in terms of how relationships start, grow, cook, or burn? It makes it quite clear! Healthy relationships grow. They’re gently creating depth of flavor, slowly. #Hijackal relationships degrade and love to reduce even the strongest fiber to nothing. Which relationship sounds better to you? Less heat over more time to savor the flavor? Or, greater heat over less time to break things down? Are you genuinely captivated by your partner, or feeling controlled and a captive? Big difference! Think deeply about these points today, even though you may think they are presented in a more lighthearted way. These are important distinctions that can lead to you being more able to discern whether your relationship has hope for being healthy. You need to know that! Big hugs!RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:Healthy relationships get better with timeHijackal relationships have too much pressureHow to tell the difference between healthy relationships and unhealthy relationshipNine ways to recognize there is too much pressure, too much anxietyHow Hijackals trick you into thinking all is well and you are lovedHow to tell if you’re in a narcissistic relationship, a controlling relationship, a potentially traumatic relationshipWant clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCASThttp://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Saturday Support Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler’s Support Circles Only $5 for the first month at any level. Safely off social media.———————————————————————-#relationshippressure #pressurewithanarcissist #narcissistpressure #healthyrelationship #hijackalrelationship #toomuchpressureinrelationship #toomuchanxietyinrelationship #anxietyinrelationship #controlinrelationship #savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  See for privacy and opt-out information.

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