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Fan Favorite Replay: When Parenting Becomes Survival Mode | Paul Voss

We’re reaching back into the All Abilities, No Filter archives to bring you a conversation that deserves another listen. In this Fan Favorite Replay, Jake sits down with Paul Voss for an honest and powerful conversation about what happens when parenting becomes less about following the perfect plan and more about simply making it through the day. Paul shares his experiences navigating the challenges, emotions, and realities that can come with raising a child with complex needs. Together, Jake and Paul talk about the moments that often aren’t discussed enough—the exhaustion, uncertainty, difficult decisions, and pressure families can experience, while also recognizing the resilience, growth, and unexpected moments of connection that happen along the way.

Whether you heard this conversation when it originally aired or you’re discovering it for the first time, this episode is a reminder that behind every diagnosis, treatment plan, IEP, and recommendation is a family doing their best to navigate circumstances that don’t always come with a roadmap.

Understanding ADHD: The Truth Behind the Myths

Is ADHD really just an inability to pay attention? Why do so many children with ADHD struggle in school despite being incredibly intelligent? And how is ADHD connected to autism, executive functioning, anxiety, and emotional regulation?

In this episode of All Abilities No Filter, host Jake Edgar sits down with Dr. Norrine Russell—psychologist, ADHD coach, educator, founder of Russell Coaching, and author of Asking the Right Questions About ADHD—to separate fact from fiction about one of the most misunderstood neurodevelopmental disorders.

Together, they discuss:

  • What ADHD actually is (and what it isn’t)
  • The biggest myths surrounding ADHD
  • The connection between ADHD and autism
  • Executive functioning and why it matters
  • Why bright children with ADHD often underperform in school
  • Practical classroom accommodations that actually help
  • Parenting strategies that build confidence instead of frustration
  • The role of medication and what current research says
  • How teachers can better support students with ADHD
  • Why “connection before correction” can transform outcomes for children

Whether you’re a parent, educator, therapist, or someone living with ADHD, this episode is packed with practical strategies, evidence-based insights, and real-world advice you can start using today.

Understanding ADHD Beyond the Myths

Is ADHD really just an inability to pay attention? Why do so many children with ADHD struggle in school despite being incredibly intelligent? And how is ADHD connected to autism, executive functioning, anxiety, and emotional regulation?

In this episode of All Abilities No Filter, host Jake Edgar sits down with Dr. Norrine Russell—psychologist, ADHD coach, educator, founder of Russell Coaching, and author of Asking the Right Questions About ADHD—to separate fact from fiction about one of the most misunderstood neurodevelopmental disorders.

Together, they discuss:

  • What ADHD actually is (and what it isn’t)
  • The biggest myths surrounding ADHD
  • The connection between ADHD and autism
  • Executive functioning and why it matters
  • Why bright children with ADHD often underperform in school
  • Practical classroom accommodations that actually help
  • Parenting strategies that build confidence instead of frustration
  • The role of medication and what current research says
  • How teachers can better support students with ADHD
  • Why “connection before correction” can transform outcomes for children

Whether you’re a parent, educator, therapist, or someone living with ADHD, this episode is packed with practical strategies, evidence-based insights, and real-world advice you can start using today.

???? Guest: Dr. Norrine Russell
???? Author of Asking the Right Questions About ADHD
???? Russell Coaching

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Planning For Two Lifetimes: Financial Strategies for Families with Special Needs

What happens when you’re no longer here to care for your child?

For many families of children with special needs, that question can feel overwhelming. In this episode of All Abilities, No Filter, host Jake Edgar sits down with Michael Ringel, CPA, Chartered Special Needs Consultant, and Founder of Special Needs Wealth Planning, to discuss the financial strategies every family should understand when planning for the future.

Michael shares his unique “Planning for Two Lifetimes” approach and explains how families can protect government benefits, utilize Special Needs Trusts and ABLE Accounts, avoid costly financial mistakes, and create long-term security for their loved ones. He also discusses retirement planning, funding future care, choosing trustees, and practical steps families can take today to gain peace of mind about tomorrow.

Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, educator, or professional supporting individuals with disabilities, this episode provides valuable guidance on one of the most important—and often overlooked—aspects of special needs planning.

Beyond Picky Eating

In this eye-opening episode of All Abilities, No Filter, Jake Edgar sits down with speech-language pathologist and feeding specialist Lena Livinsky to explore the hidden causes of picky eating and why traditional approaches often fail.

Many parents are told that picky eating is just a phase, that children will eventually grow out of it, or that they simply need to “try harder.” But what if the real issue goes much deeper?

Lena shares her holistic approach to feeding challenges, explaining how factors such as gut health, sensory processing, oral motor development, nervous system regulation, and family dynamics can all play a role in a child’s relationship with food.

Whether you’re raising a child with autism, ADHD, sensory sensitivities, or simply struggling through stressful mealtimes, this conversation offers practical strategies and a completely different perspective on feeding difficulties.

????? In this episode, you’ll learn:

? Why picky eating may be a symptom—not the root problem

? The connection between gut health and food preferences

? How sensory processing impacts eating behaviors

? Why pressure at the dinner table often backfires

? Strategies for reducing mealtime stress and power struggles

? The importance of realistic, developmentally appropriate expectations

? How Lena’s BLOOM Framework helps families understand and address feeding challenges

? What parents can do today to start creating positive changes

If you’ve ever worried about your child’s limited diet, nutritional intake, food aversions, or mealtime battles, this episode is packed with insights that can help.

The Neuro Spice Brain: Redefining Autism and Advocacy

“Hey everybody, welcome back to All Abilities, No Filter — the podcast where we have real, unfiltered conversations about autism, disabilities, advocacy, education, and the people making a difference every single day.

Today’s episode is one of the most eye-opening, relatable, and honestly fun conversations we’ve had around the table. We’re joined by Dr. Kristen Williamson — licensed professional counselor, behavioral health expert, advocate, and someone who proudly describes herself as ‘neurospicy.’ And trust me… after this episode, you’re probably gonna start using that word too.

Dr. Williamson shares her personal journey of being diagnosed with autism and ADHD later in life, what it felt like growing up trying to fit into a world that never quite made sense, and how finally getting answers completely changed the way she understood herself. We also dive into workplace accommodations, parenting neurodivergent children, masking behaviors, advocacy, sensory struggles, and why simply asking someone what they need can completely change their life.

This episode is honest, hilarious, emotional, and packed with practical insight for parents, educators, employers, neurodivergent individuals, and honestly anybody wanting to better understand the neurodivergent experience.

So grab your coffee, get comfortable, and let’s get into this unfiltered conversation with Dr. Kristen Williamson.”

 

 

 

Small Bites, Big Wins: Helping Support Selective Eaters

Mealtimes can feel like a daily battle—especially when your child has very limited food preferences. But what if picky eating isn’t about defiance… and there’s a better way to approach it?

In this episode of All Abilities, No Filter, we sit down with registered dietitian Jessica Setnick, who specializes in eating disorders and highly selective eating. Together, we break down what’s really going on beneath the surface when children—especially those with autism and other disabilities—struggle with food.

You’ll learn how to support without pressure, reduce mealtime stress, and actually help your child expand their food choices in a way that feels safe and achievable for them.

We cover:

  • Why picky eating is often misunderstood
  • The connection between autism, sensory needs, and food preferences
  • What not to do at mealtimes (this is huge)
  • Practical strategies to gently introduce new foods
  • How to encourage healthier eating without creating power struggles

Whether your child eats only a handful of foods or mealtime has become overwhelming, this episode will give you real, actionable strategies you can start using immediately.

Hypnotherapy and Autism: A New Path to Calm and Control

Can hypnotherapy really help individuals with autism and neurodivergence find greater calm, focus, and control?

In this powerful and eye-opening episode of All Abilities, No Filter, we sit down with special guest Lawrence Bartley, an autistic hypnotist who is transforming lives through hypnotherapy.

Lawrence shares his personal journey with autism, how he discovered hypnotherapy, and how it has helped him manage anxiety, improve focus, and create a more peaceful mindset. Even more importantly, he explains how he now uses these same techniques to support other neurodivergent individuals.

We break down:

  • How hypnotherapy works for autism and ADHD

  • The science behind calming the mind and reducing overwhelm

  • Real-life ways hypnotherapy can improve daily functioning

  • Misconceptions about hypnosis and what it actually does

  • Tools for parents, educators, and professionals supporting neurodivergent individuals

Whether you’re a parent, educator, clinician, or someone navigating autism yourself, this episode offers practical strategies, powerful insights, and a new perspective on supporting neurodivergent minds.

If you’re looking for ways to reduce anxiety, improve emotional regulation, and support individuals with autism, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

Stem for Every Mind with Kenneth Mims

What happens when hands-on learning meets individualized education? Real engagement. Real growth. Real outcomes.

In this episode of All Abilities, No Filter, we sit down with special guest Kenneth Mims to explore the powerful impact STEM education and hands-on learning can have for children on the autism spectrum and students with other disabilities.

We break down why traditional worksheet-based instruction often falls short — and how robotics, engineering challenges, problem-solving activities, and experiential learning can unlock attention, motivation, communication, and independence.

You’ll hear practical strategies, real-world examples, and honest insight into:

  • Why STEM increases engagement for neurodiverse learners

  • How hands-on learning builds executive functioning skills

  • The connection between movement, regulation, and cognition

  • Ways educators and parents can bring STEM into everyday learning

  • How individualized instruction transforms outcomes

Whether you’re a parent, educator, therapist, or administrator, this episode will challenge the way you think about learning — and give you tools you can use immediately.

Because when we design education for how students learn best, not just how curriculum is written, every mind has the opportunity to thrive.

When Parenting Becomes Survival Mode: With Paul Voss

When Parenting Becomes Survival Mode is a reality many families know all too well.

In this episode of All Abilities, No Filter, we’re joined by Paul Voss, a father of eight whose life changed when his youngest child was diagnosed with autism. Paul shares the raw, behind-the-scenes truth of parenting through years of exhaustion, sleep deprivation, and emotional burnout while still showing up for a full family.

This conversation isn’t about perfect parenting or clinical theory. It’s about what actually happens when families are pushed into survival mode, and what helped Paul move from constant chaos to a calmer, more intentional home. Along the way, he shares practical changes that didn’t just support his autistic child, but improved life for the entire family  including siblings with ADHD.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • Parenting during extreme exhaustion and sleep loss

  • Why common advice often doesn’t work in real life

  • How small environmental changes can create big shifts

  • The emotional weight parents especially fathers  carry silently

  • Finding hope without minimizing how hard autism can be

This episode is for parents who are tired, overwhelmed, and wondering if it ever gets better. You’re not alone, and survival mode doesn’t have to be permanent.

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