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Living Undiagnosed for Decades

Discover the unexpected truth about autism in adulthood. Uncover the surprising journey of Sylvia Moore Myers a late-diagnosed autistic individual who overcame trauma and grief while becoming an expert on autism. Find out how Sylvia’s life coaching and advocacy work is reshaping the narrative around autism. Stay tuned to learn more about Sylvia’s remarkable story and the impact of her work.At 62 years old, after years of research and writing her first book, Sylvia Moore Myers discovered something life-changing—she was autistic. Reflecting on her life, especially the grief and trauma surrounding her mother’s passing, Sylvia found a deep connection to autism. This realization led her to dive headfirst into understanding autism, leading to her becoming an expert in the field. Her journey is one of self-discovery, grief, and resilience, as she navigates through a late diagnosis and the impact it had on her life. Sylvia’s story is one of profound strength and determination, shedding light on the challenges faced by adults navigating autism in a world that often misunderstands and underserves them.,Sylvia Moore Myers’ life took an unexpected turn at 62 when she stumbled upon a revelation that altered her perception of herself—she was autistic. Her journey of discovery, intertwined with grief and trauma, unveiled a newfound understanding of her identity. As she delved deeper into autism, Sylvia’s expertise blossomed, propelling her to advocate for the underserved autistic community. Her story is a testament to resilience, shedding light on the transformative power of self-acceptance and the importance of advocating for those navigating autism in adulthood.I think we’re silent. If you want to call it a disability, that’s fine. I don’t think it’s a superpower, either. I think I’m just different from a neurotypical person, not less, not better. It’s different, and there’s a reason for it. – Sylvia Moore Myers

Understanding Autism Diagnosis in Adulthood
Navigating an autism diagnosis in adulthood can be a challenging journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Sylvia Moore Myers shared her own experience of being diagnosed as autistic later in life, shedding light on the complexities and emotions involved in this process. This key value emphasizes the importance of recognizing and embracing one’s identity as an autistic individual.

  • To learn more about Sylvia Moore Myers and her services, visit goldscars.com or sylviamooremeyers.com.
  • For inquiries or to contact Sylvia Moore Myers, fill out the contact form on her website or email her at sylviamooremyers@gmail.com
  • To access Sylvia Moore Myers’ books and resources, visit her website and explore the available content and materials.
  • To stay updated on Sylvia Moore Myers’ work and upcoming projects, follow her on social media platforms such as Twitter, LinkedIn, or Facebook.
  • For individuals seeking support or guidance in dealing with workplace issues from an autistic perspective, consider reaching out to Sylvia Moore Myers for coaching and advice.

When a Diagnosis is Empowering

This is not your typical coaching interview. Amy Armstrong is our guest and in her work she helps parents and break through conflict with heart-centered, fool-proof boundaries.  Amy is a licensed social worker and entrepreneur, Amy has spent over a decade navigating the intersection of mental health and domestic law. She is the founder amd director of The Center for Family Resolution, Amy leads a team of skilled coaches who specialize in groundbreaking parenting and co-parenting solutions trusted by domestic courts in Ohio and beyond. She also directs The Center for Coach Development, an ICF-accredited program that is a game-changer for professionals seeking to elevate their career, evoke life-changing outcomes and gain global recognition as expert coaches.

This June Amy was invited to work with social workers in Gaza and Isreal on conflict resolution. I can’t think of anyone better to be there and to help us navigate this ever changing landscape called planet earth! 

www.thecenterforfamilyresolution.com

A Life Examined with Neurodivergent Advocate Gray Rodgers

In this episode, Reid Miles sits down with Gray Rodgers, the founder of the Swadlincote Aspergers Society, to explore the multifaceted experiences of living with Asperger’s Syndrome. Gray’s personal journey, from his own diagnosis to the successful evolution of the society, offers a unique and insightful perspective on the challenges and triumphs within the autism community. The episode covers a wide range of topics, from sensory issues and special interests to the importance of peer support-led groups and the evolving perceptions of autism. Gray’s candid discussion about coming out as non-binary and the impact of expert by experience consultants further adds depth to the conversation. Through Gray’s experiences and expertise, the episode provides invaluable insights, emphasizing the need for understanding, inclusivity, and support for individuals navigating life with Asperger’s Syndrome. Whether you’re seeking personal stories, practical advice, or a deeper understanding of the autism spectrum, this episode promises to broaden your perspective and foster a greater sense of empathy and awareness within the autism community.

  • Swadlincote Aspergers Society, – Find out more about the Swaddling Coat Asperger Society on their official website or Facebook page. Search for SAS society or SAS Aspergers to easily locate their social media presence.
  • Autism Resources – Explore resources related to autism, neurodiversity, and support groups for individuals and families affected by autism. Consider joining local support groups or seeking online resources for additional information and assistance.
  • Asperger United Magazine – Discover articles written by Gray Rodgers in the Asperger United Magazine. Explore the magazine’s website or publication archives to access insightful content related to autism and neurodiversity.
  • National Autistic Society – Learn more about the National Autistic Society and their initiatives, including the Autism Act of 2009. Explore their website to stay informed about autism awareness campaigns and advocacy efforts.
  • Expert by Experience Consultation – Explore opportunities to engage with expert by experience consultation services. Consider reaching out to organizations or initiatives that value the input and feedback of individuals with lived experience in various fields, including neurodiversity and autism advocacy.

Brain Balance: A Doctor’s Perspective on Neurological Functioning

In this episode of Converge Autism, host Reid Miles of Inside the Asperger’s Studio dives into a captivating conversation with Dr. Robert Melillo, an esteemed expert in the field of neurodevelopmental disorders. Dr. Melillo shares his personal journey, education, and challenges related to autism and ADHD, offering valuable insights into his method. The episode delves into the significance of understanding the complexities of the brain and central nervous system, particularly in individuals with Asperger’s and other neurodevelopmental disorders. Dr. Melillo’s holistic approach, incorporating neurological exercises, dietary modifications, and personalized cognitive interventions, underlines the effectiveness of his method in addressing the diverse challenges faced by individuals with Asperger’s. Throughout the interview, Dr. Melillo’s expertise and passion for his work shine through, emphasizing the importance of his method in the field of neurodevelopmental disorders. Reid Miles skillfully navigates the conversation, providing valuable insights into the complexities of addressing Asperger’s and related disorders. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to gain a deeper understanding of neurodiversity and effective interventions for individuals with Asperger’s and related conditions.,In this engaging episode of Inside the Aspergers Studio, host Reid Miles engages in a thought-provoking discussion with Dr. Robert Melillo, a renowned expert in neurodevelopmental disorders. As Dr. Melillo shares his personal journey and educational background, the conversation delves into the complexities of the brain and central nervous system, particularly in individuals with Asperger’s and other neurodevelopmental disorders. Dr. Melillo’s holistic approach, encompassing neurological exercises, dietary modifications, and personalized cognitive interventions, underscores the effectiveness of his method in addressing the diverse challenges faced by individuals with Asperger’s. Throughout the interview, Dr. Melillo’s expertise and dedication to improving the lives of individuals with Asperger’s is palpable, highlighting the significance of his method in the field of neurodevelopmental disorders. Reid Miles adeptly steers the conversation, providing valuable insights into the intricacies of addressing Asperger’s and related conditions. This episode offers a compelling exploration of neurodiversity and presents valuable interventions for individuals with Asperger’s and related conditions, making it essential listening for those seeking a deeper understanding of these topics.

  • The Melillo Method Podcast: Everything Brain – A podcast mentioned in the conversation, providing insights into the experiences of individuals with neurological and developmental disorders.
  • Disconnected Kids book by Dr. Robert Melillo – A book mentioned in the conversation, serving as a user manual for individuals with autism and other neurological disorders. The book provides valuable insights into understanding how the brain works and offers essential information for both neurodivergent and non-neurodivergent
  • Brain Balance Achievement Centers – Dr. Robert Melillo’s method of improving and correcting developmental disorders is implemented at Brain Balance Achievement Centers. These centers offer personalized programs to help individuals overcome developmental challenges. Interested individuals can find more information and locate the nearest center on the official Brain Balance website.
  • Disconnected Kids Reconnected Families web series – https://drrob.yourhometv.com/?fbclid=IwAR3fOqC3QoRJ-EMIkFxOxZAI2qKZXqa5kWb3Vnn55RFXzOzK2NxBJOc79b0

Breaking Barriers: The Journey of an Autistic Playwright

Discover the unexpected truth about the impact of autism representation in theater and how one playwright is breaking barriers. Uncover the powerful story that’s creating waves in education and beyond. Stay tuned for an eye-opening revelation.Matteo Esposito, a 26-year-old autistic playwright and set designer hailing from Ontario, Canada, brings a unique and personal insight to the world of theater. Through his artistic endeavors, Matteo seeks to shatter stereotypes and promote acceptance for individuals on the autism spectrum. His dedication to crafting plays that delve into the nuances of autism drives home the message of embracing diversity and celebrating differences. With a keen focus on the educational potential of theater in fostering autism understanding, Matteo’s contributions to the realm of autism representation in theater are both impactful and inspiring. His passion for advocating inclusivity and challenging societal norms makes him a compelling voice in the conversation surrounding autism awareness and education.

If you met one person with autism, you only met one person with autism. Or if you met one autistic person, you only met one autistic person. Why do we have to put people in categories when we all have? – Matteo Esposito 

Failing is a learning experience. People don’t realize. A lot of people, if they haven’t failed in one thing, they want to find the one thing they’re good at right now. – Matteo Esposito

  • To learn more about Matteo Esposito and his plays, visit his website for additional information and updates. https://sites.google.com/view/matteoesposito/home
  • Contact Matteo Esposito for collaboration opportunities, including school tours and high school productions of his plays.
  • Explore the possibility of bringing Matteo Esposito’s plays to schools and educational institutions to raise awareness and promote understanding of autism and inclusive employment.
  • Consider supporting Matteo Esposito’s work by attending future productions of his plays and spreading the word about his impactful storytelling

ASD, ADHD, & AuDHD: Part 2

Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht, ND RP is a dually licensed naturopathic doctor, registered psychotherapist, and a Canadian leader in trauma, PTSD, and integrative medicine strictly informed by scientific research.She was diagnosed at 46, and her autism plays a significant role in who she is as a doctor, and how she interacts with and cares for her patients and clients.

Today Dr. Stephanie and Dan Holmes ask Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht about ASD, ADHD and both in Part 2 of this series.

Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht is a clinician in Canada and diagnosed later in life with both ASD and ADHD. Dr. Natalie will break down the similarities and differences of ASD, ADHD and AuDHD. She will also discuss strengths of each neurotype. This part 2 of our discussion.

Some discussion points from Dr. Natalie:

Co-occurring autism and ADHD can be experienced as

Heightening of some autistic traits

Navigating contradictions of opposing traits

Here are some of the contradictions you may experience as an AuDHD:

You thrive when there’s a set routine (autistic trait), but you struggle to plan and follow a schedule (ADHD trait)

You get very distressed when your friend shows up late to your meeting (autistic trait), but you yourself struggle to arrive at events on time (ADHD trait)

You find engaging in a special interest to be soothing (autistic trait), but you also need to jump between multiple interests to keep you engaged (ADHD trait)

You are meticulous with your plans (autistic trait), but sometimes you overwhelm yourself by making an impulsive decision (ADHD trait)

When you infodump, you have a habit of speaking “too fast” (ADHD trait), but when someone asks you an unrelated question, your responses may be delayed, or you may be unable to speak (autistic trait)

Dr. Engelbrecht’s Website:https://embrace-autism.com/author/dr-natalie-engelbrecht/

ASD, ADHD & AuDHD: Part 1

Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht, ND RP is a dually licensed naturopathic doctor, registered psychotherapist, and a Canadian leader in trauma, PTSD, and integrative medicine strictly informed by scientific research.She was diagnosed at 46, and her autism plays a significant role in who she is as a doctor, and how she interacts with and cares for her patients and clients.

Today Dr. Stephanie and Dan Holmes ask Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht about ASD, ADHD and both?

Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht is a clinician in Canada and diagnosed later in life with both ASD and ADHD. Dr. Natalie will break down the similarities and differences of ASD, ADHD and AuDHD. She will also discuss strengths of each neurotype. This part 1 of our discussion.

Some discussion points from Dr. Natalie:

Co-occurring autism and ADHD can be experienced as

Heightening of some autistic traits

Navigating contradictions of opposing traits

Here are some of the contradictions you may experience as an AuDHD:

You thrive when there’s a set routine (autistic trait), but you struggle to plan and follow a schedule (ADHD trait)

You get very distressed when your friend shows up late to your meeting (autistic trait), but you yourself struggle to arrive at events on time (ADHD trait)

You find engaging in a special interest to be soothing (autistic trait), but you also need to jump between multiple interests to keep you engaged (ADHD trait)

You are meticulous with your plans (autistic trait), but sometimes you overwhelm yourself by making an impulsive decision (ADHD trait)

When you infodump, you have a habit of speaking “too fast” (ADHD trait), but when someone asks you an unrelated question, your responses may be delayed, or you may be unable to speak (autistic trait)

Dr. Engelbrecht’s Website:https://embrace-autism.com/author/dr-natalie-engelbrecht/

An ADHD Career Coach’s Keys to Job Search Success

Shell Mendleson, an experienced ADHD career coach, brings over 35 years of expertise
in career coaching and counseling to the table. With a master’s degree in vocational rehabilitation counseling and training under the renowned author Reid Miles, Shell has guided and impacted the lives of over 1500 clients. Her passion lies in helping individuals navigate career transitions, aligning their skills with personal aspirations and work environment preferences. Through her interactive and instructional masterclass, she empowers individuals to gain clarity on their career direction and take confident steps towards their goals. Shell’s profound understanding of the challenges faced by individuals with ADHD in the workplace makes her an invaluable resource for those seeking effective career guidance and job search strategies.Reid reconnected with Shell Mendelson, an experienced ADHD career coach, during this episode. Shel’s journey began with a master’s degree in vocational rehabilitation counseling and guidance from Richard Bowles, the author of “What Color is Your Parachute?” She has positively impacted around 200 clients through her “Your Next Career Move Masterclass,” which combines instruction, interaction, coaching, and support. Shel emphasized the importance of honing in on one’s career direction, aligning personal values with job choices, and seeking the necessary training for specific roles. Her insights revealed the significance of clarity, confidence, and assertiveness in the job search process, highlighting the need to become a “job developer” rather than a “job beggar.” Shel’s engaging narrative and practical advice resonated with Reid and the audience, providing valuable strategies for navigating the challenges of job searching with ADHD.,In this episode, Reid engaged with Shel Mendelson, a seasoned ADHD career coach, whose career counseling background and training under “What Color is Your Parachute?” author, Richard Bowles, has shaped her expertise. Shel’s extensive experience, spanning over 35 years and impacting around 200 clients through her “Your Next Career Move Masterclass,” underscores her commitment to empowering individuals in their job search journey. Her emphasis on aligning personal values with career choices, seeking specialized training, and fostering clarity and confidence resonated with Reid and the audience, offering valuable insights into navigating job searching with ADHD. Shel’s unique approach, advocating for individuals to become “job developers” rather than “job beggars,” struck a chord with listeners, providing practical strategies for success in the competitive job market.

  • To purchase Shell Mendleson’s book A Course for ADHD Adults and Teens: Unlock Your Career Path, visit Amazon.com and search for the book by the title or the author’s name.
  • To order the book directly from the author’s website, visit the course book section and place an order there.
  • Keep an eye out for the book on other platforms such as LayFlat Books, where it will be available in the future.
  • For more information about Shell Mendleson and her work, visit her website to explore additional resources, services, and updates.
  • Consider engaging with the content in the book to gain clarity on your career path and take actionable steps towards a fulfilling professional journey.

www.passiontocareer.com

Empower Neurodiverse Lives: Mentoring the Mentors

Matthew Bogenschutz, director of the Virginia Leadership Education and Neurodevelopmental Disabilities Program (VA LEND), shares his lifelong journey of being surrounded by individuals with disabilities, stemming from his parents’ direction of a summer camp for kids with physical disabilities. This early exposure ignited his passion for supporting individuals with disabilities to lead fulfilling lives within their communities. Throughout his career, Matthew has worn multiple hats, from being a mental health counselor and disability advocate to now serving as a professor of social work at Virginia Commonwealth University. His commitment to improving the lives of individuals with disabilities led him to initiate the VA LEND program, addressing the critical need for qualified professionals in various disciplines to serve people with disabilities. Through his experiences and dedication, Matthew’s journey exemplifies the transformative power of early exposure in shaping one’s lifelong mission and purpose.,Matthew Bogenschutz, the director of the Virginia Leadership Education and Neurodevelopmental Disabilities Program (VA LEND), embarked on his journey of advocacy and support for individuals with disabilities from a young age. Growing up with parents who directed a summer camp for children with physical disabilities, Matthew’s formative years were immersed in an environment that fostered empathy and understanding. This early exposure instilled in him a deep-seated passion for empowering individuals with disabilities to thrive within their communities. With a diverse background as a mental health counselor, disability advocate, and now a professor of social work at Virginia Commonwealth University, Matthew’s unwavering commitment to enhancing the lives of individuals with disabilities culminated in the creation of the VA LEND program. Through his unique experiences and dedication, Matthew’s story exemplifies the profound impact of early exposure in shaping a lifelong dedication to disability advocacy and support.
“Autism is so diverse. If you’ve met one person with autism, you’ve met one person with autism. The next person with autism who you meet may be completely different, and that’s another thing that we try to impress upon people”. – Matthew Bogenschutz

  • Virginia Lend program website – For more information about the Virginia Lend program and its offerings, visit their official website by searching Virginia Lend on any search engine.
  • Virginia Lend Facebook page – Stay updated with the latest news and updates from the Virginia Lend program by following their official Facebook page.
  • AUCD.org – To find out about other Lend programs across the United States, visit aucd.org and click on the Lend map in the upper left corner to access a list of all Lend programs throughout the country.
  • Matthew’s upcoming book – Keep an eye out for Matthew’s upcoming book about his life experiences. Stay tuned for updates on its release and availability.
  • Virginia Commonwealth University – To explore more about the educational and research opportunities at Virginia Commonwealth University, visit their official website for detailed information.

Weighted Pillows: Deep Pressure for Dopamine and Sleep

Mikey Goldman, the founder of Quiet Mind, shared a compelling journey about his personal experience living with ADHD and sensory processing disorder. From his childhood struggles to the challenges of finding effective coping mechanisms, his story resonates with those managing similar mental health conditions. Mikey’s journey took an unexpected turn when he discovered the calming effects of weighted blankets. However, he found them to be cumbersome and impractical for daily use. This realization ignited a spark, leading him to develop the world’s first weighted pillow. His passion for creating a solution that could benefit not only himself but also others in the neurodivergent community and those struggling with mental health issues is evident. Mikey’s dedication to providing a simple yet effective tool for improving well-being and managing symptoms has resulted in a product that has positively impacted the lives of many. His genuine commitment to making a difference shines through as he continues to expand his offerings to cater to a wider audience, including the development of a kids’ version to help children benefit from the comfort and support of a weighted pillow.,Mikey Goldman’s journey into the world of weighted pillows began with a personal struggle with ADHD and sensory processing disorder. His poignant account of growing up with these challenges, navigating through misdiagnosis, and experimenting with medication resonates deeply with those facing similar mental health battles. It was during his quest for natural remedies that he stumbled upon the comforting effects of weighted blankets. However, he found them to be inconvenient for everyday use. This realization sparked a remarkable idea – to create a more practical and versatile solution, thus giving birth to the concept of the world’s first weighted pillow. Mikey’s unwavering commitment to improving the lives of individuals in the neurodivergent community and those grappling with mental health issues is truly inspiring. His relentless pursuit of a product that offers simplicity and effectiveness has led to the development of a tool that has positively impacted numerous lives. As he continues to expand his range, including plans for a kids’ version, Mikey’s dedication to providing a source of comfort and support remains unwavering, offering hope and relief to many.

https://www.onequietmind.com/

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