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High Level Narcissist – Exploiter Extraordinaire

High level narcissists spend their days exploiting others. This is their style and their deep need to take advantage of every relationship: spouses, partners, ex-spouses, children. 

When you are partnered with a high level narcissist this individual interferes with the expression of your individuality and creativity.

1. You become part of the Image that defines them as special and superior to others. The narcissist expects you to mirror his/her perfection.  For the narcissist image is reality.  This insistence interferes with the development of your individuality. 

2. With your fine character you make the high level narcissist look very good. .The high level uses your character as a vehicle for twining with you. 

3. High levels are often attracted to empaths.  Empaths are highly intuitive and experience a deep understanding and appreciation for the feelings of others. Again, the empath is often very forgiving and will stay with the high level despite how badly they are treated.. 

4.  High level narcissists ride high on your unique creativity and some of them exploit your creativity ideas. They are unwilling to give your many creative gifts. 

AT a point of awakening you recognize that you  can no longer be manipulated and controlled by the high level narcissist. You have done the research about the true nature of the narcissistic personality. . Your wisdom and deep insights have brought you to the recognition and decision that you are moving forward to separate from the level narcissist and put yourself first. 

Give yourself so much credit for appreciating who you are as an authentic, empathic, creative, individual. You are persevering, grounded, have many gifts and are moving along the pathways of the authentic original self.  

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Married to a High Level Narcissist – Revisiting Your Childhood of Desolation

The word “desolation” is from the French going back hundreds of years. It means a state of emptiness or destruction. 

Growing up with a narcissistic parent(s) you suffered from the beginning. Some of you sensed there was something wrong and frightening about your family. Some children of narcissistic parents wonder if they were switched at birth. Of course you knew that this was not literally the case.

From earliest childhood you felt a deep need to please your narcissistic parent. You made constant efforts to be accepted and loved by mother or father. These children are emotionally starving for attention and care. 

You suffered greatly from the humiliations, accusations, punishments, guilt induction, extreme control placed on you by the narcissist. 

Those who stay married to the high level narcissist are under tremendous stress, day and night. There is no respite, your nervous system is constantly in fight or flight survival mode. 

There is a time of awakening when you step forward to ground yourself in your unique individuality. This is your pathway of psychological grounding and transformation. Give yourself tremendous credit for your journey of the rediscovery of your wholeness, uniqueness and creativity. 

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Married to A High Level Narcissist – Revisiting Your Childhood of Desolation

The word “desolation” originates from the French, several hundred years ago. It means a states of emptiness or destruction. 

Growing up with a narcissistic parent(s), you suffered from the beginning. Some of you sensed there was something wrong and frightening about your family. You felt out of place and didn’t understand why. 

From earliest childhood you felt a deep need to please your narcissistic parent. You made constant efforts to be accepted and loved by mother or father. These children are emotionally starving for attention and care. They are ravenous for affection and empathy.

Those who stay married to a high level narcissist are under tremendous stress, day and night. There is no respite. Your nervous system is continually in fight or flight survival mode.  As the months and years moved forward you became very weary, stressed, anxious, depressed. 

You are now awakened and step forward to ground yourself in your unique individuality. This is your pathway of psychological grounding and transformation. Give yourself credit for your journey of rediscovery of your wholeness and creativity. 

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Never Underestimate the High Level Narcissist's Cunning

The high level narcissist is a restless human being. He/she is always seeking narcissistic supplies–those psychological foods that he must have in order to keep his ego sense of self fully inflated…. 

Those who marry high level narcissists are unaware of their cunning and secrecy. 

You have been betrayed too many times and treated with disrespect—This is a non-relationship. 

Now you are awakening to self care: rest and sleep, nourishing food, hydration, movement and exercise, Nature, beautiful music, your form of spiritual practice.

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High Level Narcissists – Vicious Exploitation

High level narcissists cause multiple psychological and emotional traumas in the lives of others, particularly their spouses, ex-spouses, children, in-laws. Always on the hunt for narcissistic supplies which includes a feverish search for people they can exploit, the high level can deleteriously affect a wide swath of people including close family members. Exploitive, duplicitous, high manipulative, secretive, the high level never stops his hunt for the ultimate narcissistic supplies: praise, adulation, social status, wealth, spouses and partners that will enhance his/her image of perfection. 

I have seen families decimated in the aftermath of the narcissist’s vicious, repeated dark deeds. Having neither shame nor conscience, a high level narcissist, thinks absolutely nothing of leaving an ex-spose and his children with no financial support or security while he or she moves on with a new fresh partner to marry again and begin a new family. Narcissists don’t stop. Just when you think that they have mellowed, changed or slowed down, they will surprise you with finding another way to obstruct you. 

 High level narcissists want everything for themselves. They will never take responsibility ever for the damage that they do. Never wait for an apology or reparations from them. They view themselves as perfect—they have the problem. 

Become highly informed about the narcissistic personality. This is a powerful tool for you. 

You are moving forward along your pathways of the original self. You deserve tremendous credit for all of your research, insights, intuitions and great wisdom 

 

High Level Narcissists Eclipse Your Psychological, Emotional and Creative Options

You cannot be the spouse of a high level narcissist and be free to be yourself.  The narcissist takes space in certain crevices of  your mind and heart that cannot be overlooked. 

High level narcissists nibble away at our hope, creativity and optimism. They pick at you here and there. For spouses who are more dependent and vulnerable, they can leave this person  helpless, unable to make their own decisions, immobilized psychologically. 

High level narcissists weaken, deride and humiliate the ones This is delusional on their part.  

After research, study, insights and many efforts you reach an awakening to the truth about the true nature of the high level narcissist. 

Practice self care each day: rest, sleep,  nourishing food, good hydration, movement and exercise that works for you,. 

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Expanding and Deepening Your Individuality

Qualities of Individuality 

Independence of Mind- Respecting your thought processes but remaining flexible to changing your perceptions when research and insight individuates your movement to a new direction.

Trusting your intuition – Flashes of wisdom that move taster than thought. 

Appreciate the forces that created you and how you survived and who you are becoming as a unique individual.

Appreciating you sense of humor – Humor is magic and distinguishes us as individuals.

A scene from a camping site near the ocean describes the beauty and simplicity of family and friend gatherings overlooking the ocean. Campers have set ups that move from motor homes to trucks to small campers. 

This is a lovely scene of people enjoying the cooking and eating of homemade food, children playing games, scooters, bikes; adults talking with one another with warmth, small fires that create warmth and friendship. 

Recall your memories of times you spent in beautiful natural places: ocean, lakes, mountains.  These experiences are calming, enjoyable, hopeful, restorative 

Appreciate yourself as an individual, immerse yourself in beauty every day, get the rest and sleep that you need and deserve, hydration, nourishing food, movement and exercise, listen to beautiful music. 

 

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Predatory Narcissists Compromise Your Physical and Psychological Health

I hear from many partners of predatory narcissistic personalities who have struggled profoundly in their marriages to narcissistic personalities. 

Living with a narcissistic spouse saps your energy, increases anxiety and hypervigilance, blocks your creative juices, stunts your emotional expression and spontaneity, isolates you from family and friends, sends you into depressive moods dysregulates your body/mind systems, increases oxidative stress, traps you in the sympathetic zone, the fight or flight survival mode. 

How much longer will you continue this self destructive pattern? How many more times will you return to the narcissist?

This is your moment of awakening, your revelation of the pathway of the authentic self. Your road is up ahead, awaiting your presence. 

Recognize that you are entitled, you are created to fulfill your destiny, a unique, creative, evolved individual. 

Spend as much time as you can in the calming restorative, parasympathetic mode: rest, sleep, nourishing food, hydration, beautiful music, time with individuals you trust, your unique spiritual practice, restorative time with Nature.  

Learn to Detach from the Narcissist's Outrageous Projections

Narcissists are constantly projecting their unconscious psychological venom on to others, especially spouses, children and other family members. Inside the privacy of the home, those who revere the image that the narcissist presents in the outside world have no inkling just how ugly the narcissist’s personality can be. For those he/she is impressing to obtain narcissistic supplies, this person becomes a source of adulation and veneration. 

For those who live with him behind closed doors, the narcissist is a living nightmare. He is constantly demanding, spoiled, insisting on perfection from others. When narcissists don’t get from you what they say they want, they are inclined to scream like two year olds with greatly enhanced volume. When you do something perfectly he finds a flaw and starts picking away at you.  They are relentless insisting that they are right, you are wrong and that there is something psychologically and mentally askew with you. The reverse is true–this individual has a severe personality disorder that is not going to change. 

For many spouses it is necessary to sever the relationship because of its toxicity to them. Learning how to detach and build a stronger solid sense of self and your own entitlement are keys to dealing with the narcissistic personality and moving forward as a unique, grounded individual.  

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High Level Narcissists Steal Your Creative Visions

High level narcissists are ravenous for new ideas and concepts. If they can’t conjure up one themselves, they will steal yours. They become intrigued with you if you have talent. With their charm and believable facade they convince you that you are destined to become an integral part of their corporative team. 

They cascade you with compliments. They treat you like royalty. Most people are fooled by this full court charm and adoration offensive. You start to trust them and share your creative projects with them. Your designs, apps, book concepts, etc., are laid out in full detail. The project is moving forward. Your friend and business partner has disappeared. Some time later you discover that your creative concepts have been commandeered and now have his label on them. He has betrayed you. 

The lesson here is to always remember the value of your unique creativity. Pay attention to your intuitions that accurately reveals l the true nature of the narcissistic personality. 

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