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How Not To Settle For Less In Life And Love – Dr. Rhoberta Shaler


If you’re with a relentlessly difficult, toxic person (a #Hijackal), or were raised by one, it’s likely you’ll be feeling somewhat trapped, suffocated, limited, or held back. Let’s start today to change that. FOMO! Lots of talk about FOMO these days: the Fear Of Missing Out. What are you missing out on just now? If it’s love, freedom, possibilities, and joy, it’s time to rethink, right? Today, I’m talking about these kinds of FOMO, and what you can do to allay your fears and step into the life you’d like to create: Do you want your life to be one way, and it consistently show up another way/Does there never seem to be enough time to get it together?Do you know what you’re afraid of missing out on?Do you know what holds you back from grabbing it, or why it never seems to be within reach? Sound at all familiar? The good news is that you can start with recognizing these things and then move on to creating the life you actually want, and I’m here to help. It’s not wise to make huge decisions quickly. I advocate small, positive, doable changes. That’s what I write about in my book, Kaizen For Couples. Even if you’re not in a couple now, this book will help you see what’s possible and necessary to do to have the best relationship possible with yourself and others. It’s not just for couples! These strategies work everywhere…even at work. HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:Imagining a full, rich, free life of your choosing. It’s possible! 3 unnecessary ways you might be missing outHow to step beyond limitations you may be feelingWhy Dr. Shaler suggests not believing a “you can have it all” claim…and, what she does believe about it4 things you can take charge of to create the life you wantGetting beyond #Hijackal relationships and reclaiming yourselfFree yourself to start taking small, doable steps towards the life you wantWant clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.Learn more: TransformingRelationship.comListen to my podcastsLike my Facebook pageFollow me on Twitter: Stay in touch on LinkedIn: Find my inspiring graphics on Instagram:So much on my Pinterest boardsSubscribe to my YouTube Channel: ForRelationshipHelp ————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Optimize Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.WOW! Join now.  Only $5 for the first month at any level.———————————————————————-#liveyourbestlife #nolimitsliving #freeyourselffromlimitation #limitingbeliefs #emotionalhealing #embracepossibilities #lifeafteremotionalabuse #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  For information regarding your data privacy, visit

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