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Rescue Yourself from the Pernicious Shadow of the High Level Narcissist

Quote by Carl Jung  “Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual’s conscious life, the blacker and denser itis. At all counts, it forms an unconscious snag, thwarting our most well-meant intentions.”

Trapped in a marriage or partnership with a pernicious high level narcissist, an individual obsessed with self and public image with extreme self entitlement, very low conscience capacity, often an infant terrible with a dreadful temper that is projected out on to you behind closed doors. This is horrifying to the spouse or child of the high level narcissist. 

The  high level carries from within a primitive, seething Shadow that ejects venom in various forms on to you: false accusations, recriminations, incessant criticisms, withering projections that send you into the dark reaches of the fight or flight nervous system, the sympathetic mode. You are at the mercy of the narcissist’s rampant regressed Shadow. The opposite occurs in public with the high level who worships his image. Here there is a major shift—the look of the face, the eyes, the movements, pace, style are transformed. The narcissist, an incredible method actor lights up with this charismatic false self. He/she turns it on like a light switch, a transformation that is highly impressive. 

How much longer can you tolerate the scream fits, volleys of temper, scathing glances, belittlings that leave you psychologically and physically weakened. You don’t and never did deserve to be treated this way. 

Make a stand now for yourself. You deserve to be treated with respect and deference. 

With this opening, you belong to yourself again–spontaneity, joy, awe, beauty, solitude, independence of thought.

I want to share some thoughts about the Shadow with you. 

For tens of thousands of yeaars man has been dealing with his Shadow in a variety of ways. Going back to the dawn of time when man first walked the earth upright, he has been infused with the Shadow parts of himself found in the deep unconscious of his psyche. 

Today we are still facing our Shadows. As humans we carry the inheritance of our Shadow selves. Tis is not a curse but an incredible boon to those who seek wholeness, individuation and the promise and the fulfillment of one’s unique creativity. 

 

“Sleeping with the Enemy: Narcissists and Cybersecurity” with Rick Jordan on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #271

 Are you worried you might be a victim of a narcissist’s cybercrime?  Are they breaking into your computers or hacking into your email?  How do they track you or trace you?  What equipment can they use?   Rick Jordan, former CIA cybersecurity specialist is going into all of this in this episode including: 
– how to protect yourself from cyberhacking
– how to know if you’ve been hacked
– what to do about if you have been 
– everything narcissists and cybersecurity
 
More About Rick Jordan
Rick Jordan is one of America’s leading voices in the area of cybersecurity.  He uses a combination of CIA training, criminal psychology, and his technology and business experience to figure out how even the most manipulative minds operate.  He’s been featured in every major media outlet and in movies and documentaries and is the host of his own show, Rick Jordan TV. 
More about Rick right here:  https://www.rickjordan.tv
 
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Key Personality Traits of the Golden Boy High Level Narcissist

Charming, charismatic, gifted at luring you in and bringing you back when you have decided to leave them.

Golden boy high level narcissists seek escape and pleasure to the extreme. When things get tough they run off, escape to their pleasure domes, go on buying sprees, have exciting affairs, spent lots of money on bling–jewelry, fine clothes, fancy trips and exotic treks, endless shopping sprees.

Pathological bragging about what they own, what they purchaed, what they plan to buy, prominent schools they attended, their myriad successes, their grand plans to acquire more material largesse. 

Exceedingly vain–Constantly perfecting how they  look, clothing they wear, cars they drive, homes they purchase.

Excessive pathological self entitlement. He knows that he can control the lives of others, especially his spouses, children and inner social circle. 

When you fully comprehend that the golden boy narcissist cannot be your partner and is incapable of authentic empathy or compassion, being faithful to you, deeply appreciating you as an individual—–you finally see through the magnificent delusion he has created and that you at one time believed was true.

Now you are grounded in our own unique true reality, you are moving forward with perseverance and self assertion—discovering your own direction—coming back to your oriiginal self. 

I give you so much credit for this journey you have taken, leaving the high level narcissists and all others of this ilk.

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“An Offer You Can't Refuse” with Susan Sly on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #270

Have you ever thought about how you end up doing the things that you do?   How you choose to interact with people?  Why you are the way you are? You may think you are making choices but there is so much that has been dictated by our subconscious.    Susan Sly is a master.   An entrepreneur who has bought and sold several multimillion dollar companies, she has studied human behavior, artificial intelligence and everything that goes into how we interact with people and how we negotiate.   Plus she’s definitely encountered her share of narcissists.   Tune in to hear this riveting interview with one of the OG badass women in business, who will share the secrets of why you can’t refuse offers.   Seriously, you’ll be on the edge of your seat. 
More About Susan Sly
Susan Sly is a tech investor, best-selling author, keynote speaker, trainer and entrepreneur.  She has appeared on CNN, CNBC, Fox, Lifetime Television, The CBN, The Morning Show in Australia and been quoted in MarketWatch, Yahoo Finance, Forbes, and more.  Susan is the author of 7 books.  Her book project with NY Times Best Selling Author, Jack Canfield, made six Amazon Best Selling lists.  Susan has built channel sales teams that have produced over $1.7 billion in sales.
She is currently the Co-CEO, and cofounder, of Radius AI – a Silicon Valley and Phoenix based AI company.  Susan is also currently studying at MIT with a focus in artificial intelligence and machine learning.
Susan has completed the Boston Marathon 6X and placed Top 10 in the Pro Division of the Ironman Triathlon in Malaysia.  Susan is passionate about philanthropy and has dedicated a significant amount of time and money working to liberate girls from trafficking and invest in education to support women and girls who have survived trauma and abuse both domestically and overseas.
Susan is the mother of five children and resides with her husband in Scottsdale, Arizona.  Find out more about Susan at www.susansly.com
Susan truly believes we can have it all.
Grab Susan’s Book “Organize Your Life in 5 Min Per Day” right here:  https://amzn.to/3dwTsWG 
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To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
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Parasitic Narcissists Weaken Your Psychological and Physical Immune System

A parasitic narcissist is a merciless taker, feeding off of your emotional and psychological attachment to them, your vulnerability and dependency. They steal your physical and psychological energy and exploit your creative gifts. 

The narcissist puts you in fight or flight mode, the sympathetic nervous system zone which causes oxidative stress. When prolonged it disrupts the endocrine and adrenal systems, can cause extreme exhaustion, chronic insomnia, gut dysbiosis and weakening your immune system.

Over many years of being ruthlessly victimized by the parasitic narcissist you are always exhausted, lack energy and yur self-assertion has diminished with your confidence, your creative gifts lie fallow, you have severe mood shifts, feel depressed and anxious most of the time.  

How to break free from the parasitic narcissist:

Research and stud the origins and psychodynamics of the narcissistic personality. Read my books: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life, Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist.

Let go of the shame and doubt that has bound you from childhood through daily practice of self care: sleep, rest, downtime,, using your creative gifts, movement and exercise that works best for you.

Use your inner wisdom and intuition to continually protect yourself from entering into relationships with narcissistic personalities.

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Respect and Praise for Children of Narcissistic Mothers

Narcissistic mothers come in innumerable sizes, shapes, proclivities, temperaments, dispositions but they have traits in common with regard to the way they treat their children. Being the child of a narcissistic mother is one of the most difficult , complex and painful human roles,

Narcissistic mothers:

Focus ont hemselves whether they are overt or covert narcissistic personalities.

These mothers insist on their version of “reality” not yours.

They are highly entitled to get and have whatever they want. If this means that you are their servant that’s just fine with them.

Narcissistic mothers rather than have a genuine relationship with their child are highly exploitive, using them to suit her purposes.

Their children are put into roles that burnish the narcissistic  mother’s perfect public image.

Narcissistic mothers are great actors who convince family members, social and professional circles that they are highly devoted and dedicated and loving toward their children. They are method actors in this way and fool almost everyone. 

Narcissistic mothers are masters of control and rule the household and children like tyrannical potentates. 

Narcissistic mothers humiliate their children, weakening them psychologically and causing them to doubt themselves.

Narcissistic mothers are hypocrites—very strict and insistent that  their child behaves perfectly but having no standards of civility or empathy in the way that she treats her children. 

Narcissistic mothers re incapable of true insight and spend their days in states of psychological denial and manufactured version of their delusional world where they reign as perfect, fine individuals. This is their belief.

You are a separate individual from your narcissistic mother. Learn to appreciate your individuality, creativity gifts, your warmth, intelligence, self initiation, kindness and psychological strength and stamina.

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“The Narcissist Spy Who Loved Me” with Pete Turner on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #269

Have you ever wondered how those guys in the military develop trust and relationships with terrorists?   How can they negotiate with them and actually get them to give in on things?  In this episode, former Army combat spy, Pete Turner is breaking it all down.   He spills all the secrets including: 
– how to imperceptibly control conversations
– how to create value when it’s dangerous to trust 
– leveraging situations to achieve your goals
– linking tactics to your strategies 
– why narcissists are actually useful patsies
If you’re negotiating with narcissists or high conflict, difficult people, this is the episode for you.  Tune in for ways to get narcissists off their positions and closer to yours, and to find out how to cool down negotiations when the temperatures get red hot! 
More About Pete Turner
Pete A Turner is a former Army combat spy with over 1000 missions in conflict zones in a variety of countries, like Bosnia, Egypt, Iraq and Afghanistan. His daily missions took him off-camp and out to find the people, information and secrets that enabled commanders to win. Ultimately, Pete succeeded because he learned to earn the trust of the most dangerous and evil people in the region. This trust allowed Pete unique access to the “Ground Truth” illustrating the realities that exist below the tactical level.
Today, Pete uses his “Ground Truth” focused collection techniques on the Break It Down Show https://www.breakitdownshow.com/  (BIDS). BIDS illustrates life through the experiences of fascinating people. With over 900 episodes, his show is a leader in the veteran creative space. He is also the creator of the Prison Chronicles, an 8-part limited series from the Break It Down Show.
As a media consultant focused on podcast, Pete helps people, projects and companies get the most out of their podcasting goals. His professional services include Executive Producer, Consultant and media-host training. For more on Pete, or to inquire about his services, email to pete@breakitdowshow.com
Pete has authored and published several peer-reviewed articles focused on aspects of modern conflict. He is a recognized expert on modern combat, culture and international relations. 
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THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION:  

Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others.
Features
Adaptive Facial Recognition technology
Technology to detect physical tampers
Real-time text message reminders and Alerts
Customizable scheduling
Automated reporting options
Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life

____________________________________________________________________

For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
Grab a copy of Rebecca’s book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________
CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.rebeccazung.com
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High Level Narcissistic Golden Boy – Attracted to Empaths

Recall when you were face to face with an individual who exuded a palpable charm, a kind of erotic force that was impossible to deny, an enchantment. 

The golden one of many gifts – often handsome, articulate, at times brilliant, smooths his way through life having been born as a kind of nobility. 

Enter the empath, that unique individual of great discernment, intuition and sensitivity.  Often introverted they are drawn to this individual of towering self confidence, indomitable energy, fearlessness combined with magnetic charm.

If drawn into the narcissist’s enchanted circle the empath is loyal and tends to put up with the projections, criticisms and humiliations  by the high level narcissist. 

 There is a point of awakening when the empath has had more than enough of the high level’s brand of abuse and with research and inner wisdom decides to move forward along the pathways of the original self and put the emphasis on self care and creative and personal transformation. 

Break FREE from Negative Thoughts by Taking Your Thoughts Captive by Victoria D. Walker

Break FREE from Negative Thoughts by Taking Your Thoughts Captive by Victoria D. Walker

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As a Christian Author, Thought Coach, Podcaster, Entrepreneur, Director & Educator at Choose 2 Think Academy, Speaker & University Spanish Instructor with nearly 30 years of teaching & advising experience, Victoria’s mission is to coach women how to live their best thought life and how to launch successful businesses. Her proven methods help the frazzled mom, the struggling wife, the overworked nana and the anxious single entrepreneur deal with toxic thoughts and thinking patterns in healthy, life-changing ways. ?Over the years, she’s written Bible studies, taught Sunday School, led small women’s groups, authored two books, blogged, and more recently her writing’s been featured twice in Just Between Us, a world renown Christian magazine that includes regular contributors like Lysa TerKeurst and Joni Eareckson Tada. She currently crafts devotionals for Guideposts Strength & Grace magazine. Her passions are God, family, traveling, and chasing Rico the MorKY, her blog mascot, around the beautiful town of Midway, KY.

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