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Divorce is difficult for children, no matter what the reasons or circumstances. When you leave a #Hijackal–a relentlessly difficult person, a narcissistic person, a toxic person–you have so much more to consider. #Hijackals like to keep you in court, give you as little as possible, and want to take as much as possible. You know that. So, how can you focus on the children while balancing all that you have to also attend to? Today’s episode with Dr. Larry Waldman will help with that. Kids get in the “loyalty squeeze” between divorcing parents. It’s tough. They want both of you, even if one of you treats them badly. Get this expert’s insights and advice.Need my help to walk through the muddle? Start here. BeAClient.com Big hugs,RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:Why Dr. Waldman believes divorce is prevalentWhat second marriages are likely to failTriggering abandonment in childrenWhat children learn when parents divorceHow to reduce trauma for a child of divorceWhy you need to return your attention to the children rather than letting your ex drain all the air out of you GUEST: DR. LARRY WALDMANDr. Waldman is a recently semi-retired certified school psychologist and licensed clinical, forensic psychologist in Phoenix, Arizona. He conducted a highly successful private practice of 45 years working with children, teens, parents, couples, and adults in a solution-focused manner. He also consulted with family, personal injury, immigration and estate planning attorneys. His BS in Education/Psychology was from the University of Wisconsin; his MS in School Psychology was from the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee; his Ph.D. in Educational/School Psychology was earned at Arizona State University; and his Diplomate (ABPP) was received in 2003.Waldman was the past president of the Maricopa Psychological Society, the Director of Psychological Services for Charter Psychiatric Hospital of Glendale and was an “Official Guide” (top expert) on Parenting for SelfGrowth.com. He continues as a Medical Consultant for the Social Security Office in Phoenix, an adjunct graduate professor in the Counseling Department for the University of Phoenix, and serves on the professional advisory board of Stepping Stones of Hope, a charitable organization serving children whom have lost a parent. Waldman is the co-chair of the Early Career Psychologists Committee with the Arizona Psychological Association (AzPA). He is also certified by the American Council on Exercise (ACE) as a (senior) fitness specialist.Dr. Waldman trained as a public speaker. His signature presentations are: The Business of Private Practice—The Graduate Course You Never Had and Teaching Parents to Parent. He has made over 150 paid presentations in his career to attorneys, chiropractors, psychologists, family therapists, counselors, social workers, school psychologists and school counselors. To the community Waldman speaks on parenting, marriage, stress, depression and anxiety, wellness, grand parenting and psychotherapy. His seminars are organized, practical and entertaining—offering “edutainment.”GIFT FOR YOU: CONNECT WITH ROBERT MACPHEEWEBSITE:  https://topphoenixpsychologist.comPODCAST: FACEBOOK: http://www.facebook.com/larrywaldmanphdYOUTUBE:  INSTAGRAM: LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larrywaldmanphdTWITTER: ——————————————————————————————————————————–Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER! I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.WOW! 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SO annoying! You want to be in relationship with a grown-up and the petulant child keeps showing up instead. Today, I’m diving into what’s behind their self-centered world views and warped emotional growth patterns. Better yet, I’ll share at least 6 things you can take action on to empower yourself! #Hijackals®, my term for the relentlessly difficult people who hijack relationships for their own purposes and then scavenge them for power, status, and control, confuse their desire for something with their right to take it. Have you experienced that? #Hijackals primary need is to win in all circumstance, with all people, about everything. They’ll even do that with their children! Sad. Nasty! These difficult people do not like to be told “No” in any form, or in any form approximating “no,” either. They are “partial adults” who quickly descend into being petulant children. Big hugs!RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:How Hijackals get stuck emotionallyWhat “partial adults” don’t like to do….think: work, pay bills, stop playing video games, be inconvenienced, etc.The effects of never learning to collaborate or cooperateJust a petulant child behavior, or are they anti-social? Oops! How partial adults are passive-aggressiveSIX, yes 6, most important first steps to consider before handling #Hijackal petulance and childish ragesWant clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShalerYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Saturday Support Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler’s Relationship Help Circles. 50% off your first month. . Safely off social media.———————————————————————-#petulantpartners #manchild #womanchild #narcissistbehavinglikeachild #narcissistdemands #narcissisttrantrum #handlinghijackals #childishtantrumsofadults #adultswhorage #adultswhohavetantrums #savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #antisocialbehavior #lackingempathy #journorequest #prrequest ? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ever feel too tired to even try to think your way out of a paper bag?Then, you may see thinking your way out of a toxic relationship as insurmontable on your worst days. Today, my guest, Robert MacPhee, and I will help you find the energy, courage, and skills to step out of mental exhaustion as well as emotional exhaustion. When you can count on your improved decision-making strategies, you’re more likely to feel more confident in your decisions. Listen and use these new insights and tactics to lift yourself up, and make better decisions in favor of yourself and your children. Big hugs,RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:Why it’s important to focus on the decision-making processWhat “decision fatigue” is and how it may work against youHow you can get stuck in a comfortably uncomfortable spot and why you need to moveHow making excellent decisions impacts relationshipsHow improving decision-making can help you escape a toxic relationshipHow not to have regrets after making a decisionGUEST: ROBERT MACPHEERobert MacPhee is a leadership coach and consultant. He is the former Director of Training for Jack Canfield, (Chicken Soup for the Soul, The Success Principles), a Founding Member of the Transformational Leadership Council, a Co-Founder of the Southern California Association of Transformational Leaders, the author of the “Manifesting for Non-Gurus” book and partner journal and the creator of the Excellent Decisions approach to effective leadership. Robert teaches people how to thrive, achieve at a very high level and be truly happy,by making decisions and taking actions driven by their vision and values rather than all of the stress and pressure we are faced with in today’s world.Ancient Greek Definition of Happiness: “The experience of joy while in pursuit of your potential.”GIFT FOR YOU: Video explaining how change works and why people experience resistance even when they are pursuing a goal that they KNOW is good for them.www.excellentdecisions.com/joyCONNECT WITH ROBERT MACPHEEWEBSITE:  www.ExcellentDecisions.comPODCAST: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/excellent-decisions/id1439129373FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/excellentdecisions/YOUTUBE:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh-4yWBXQAwOPTWP8NYuWuA?view_as=subscriberINSTAGRAM: LINKEDIN:https://www.linkedin.com/in/macpheerobert/TWITTER: ——————————————————————————————————————————–Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER! I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Relationship Help Support Circles  ———————————————————————-#excellentdecisions #leavinganarcissist #leavingnarcissists #robertmacphee #excellentdecisionmaking #decisionfatigue #overcomingdecisionfatigue #whywewontdecidetoleave #decidingtoleaveanarcissist #makebetterdecisions #confidentdecisionmaking #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

You never feel safe. You’re always wondering when you’ll be the victim of something sneaky, nasty, or blatantly wrong. You can’t quite put your finger on what it is, but it’s impacting your health, self-esteem, self-confidence, and the lives of your children. It may well be ambient abuse. Good people–people with empathy and good hearts–are most likely to be preyed on my emotional vampires, emotional terrorists. Those are other names for #Hijackals. Of course, Hijackals® is my term for the relentlessly difficult, toxic people who hijack relationships for their own purposes, and scavenge them for power, status, and control. Unless you are a mental health professional, you cannot diagnose someone with a personality disorder. But, you sure can talk about the patterns, traits, cycles, and behaviors of Hijackals, right? Learn these ten ways to recognize ambient abuse, and take note of it. It’s real. It’s happening. And, if it’s happening at your house, you want to see it clearly, and make good decisions as to what your next best steps are. Start with the ideas in this episode! Want to talk with me? New clients can use this one-time, one-hour offer at BeAClient.comBig hugs!RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:What is meant by “ambient abuse”Why it’s so difficult to recognize ambient abuseHow both covert narcissists and overt narcissists use ambient abuseCrazy-making aspects of emotional abuse, ambient abuse10 clear ways to recognize ambient abuseOnce you see it, you can track it…and recognize how real it isEmpowering changes you can make to take back your power in the face of abuse Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShalerYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Saturday Support Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler’s Relationship Help Circles. 50% off your first month. . Safely off social media.———————————————————————-#ambientabuse #whatisambientabuse #recognizeambientabuse #ambientabuseislikefog #getclearaboutabuse #savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

I loved the TV series, Lie To Me. I watched the whole series three times. Why? Because it is fascinating to see what can be determined from the face with no words required! You likely see things in the relentlessly difficult person’s face that you respond to. You may not recognize this, but you do.Facial coding is Dr. Dan Hill’s specialty, and he’s published about it extensively. He’s the expert, and you’ll learn so much from this interview…even if you’ve never know about #microexpressions before!#Hijackals have a recognizable smirk. I call it the #HijackalSmirk because it is a telltale sign. You’ve seen it. You know it. I asked Dr. Hill to explain this and you’ll be very interested in to learn what’s really going on within the #narcissist or other #Hijackal at that time.Big hugs,RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:What are microexpressions?How they register in our brainsWhen a smile is not really a smile at all9 ways anger can show on a person’s faceHow contempt is distinct from anger and disdainHow observing microexpressions can keep you saferGUEST: DR. DAN HILL Dan Hill, Ph.D., is the founder and president of Sensory Logic, Inc, which pioneered the use of facial coding in business in order to capture and quantify emotional dynamics. The company has done work for over 50% of the world’s top 100 B2C companies and has seven U.S. patents related to facial coding scoring techniques. Dan is the author of eight books, including Emotionomics, featuring a foreword by Sam Simon, co-creator of The Simpsons; and Famous Faces Decoded: A Guidebook for Reading Others.GIFT FOR YOU: Dan has no gift at this time. Do visit his website. CONNECT WITH DR. DAN HILL WEBSITE:  https://www.danhill.sensorylogic.comPODCAST: FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Emotionswizard/YOUTUBE:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC96dVh4EoIHj_0tZrBEtXtgINSTAGRAM: LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dan-hill-emotionswizard/TWITTER: https://twitter.com/emotionswizard——————————————————————————————————————————–Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER! I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Relationship Help Support Circles  ———————————————————————-#facialcoding #drdanhill #lietome #lookofcontempt #recognizingfacialcues #emotionomics #famousfacesdecoded #facereading #facialexpressionsofcontempt #hijackalcontempt #recognizinghateinaface#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

It’s SO “sticky” to be with a covert narcissist, a #Hijackal! By “sticky” I mean that you think they’re doing something but you’re not sure. You hate what they’re doing but you can’t quite put your finger on it. You don’t feel safe around them but they play on your empathy and you end up reassuring them. Sound familiar?You may be with a covert narcissist! By now, if you’ve been listening to my podcast, you know that I don’t advocate being an amateur psychologist and diagnosing someone. So, let’s call them Covert Hijackals! Same sneaky, play-on-your-heartstrings (and your last nerve) stuff! Very sticky!Today I’m giving you SO many clues to help you identify what’s really going on in your relationship. Unpack the truth, and get on your own team. You’re being played by someone who is appealing to the very best qualities in you. Very confusing! I can help. BeAClient.com Big hugs!RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:the differences between overt narcissists and cover narcissistswhy you might second-guess yourself for a long time when dealing with a covert #Hijackalhow covert narcissists manipulate you in different ways than overt, arrogant, cock #Hijackalsnoticing how covert narcissists pretend to be a victim of your behaviorwhat’s up with the passive-aggressive procrastinationdefinite things to do first once you realize you’re dealing with a #covertnarcissistWant clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShalerYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Saturday Support Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler’s Relationship Help Circles. 50% off your first month. . Safely off social media.———————————————————————-#covertnarcissists #recognizingacovertnarcissist #coverthijackals #whatisacovertnarcissist #amiwithacovertnarcissist #amiwithanarcissist #sneakypeople #emotionalneglect #crazymakingbehavior #secondguessingmyself#savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Heart-wrenching, heart-warming story of how my guest, Jennifer Maneely, found her way back from addiction to success in every way, on every level! Be inspired by her story, and her willingness to share her journey. You may have an addicted family member, and you so want to help. Learn what is actually helpful. Also, though, learn what may be well-meaning, but is actually unhelpful and alienating! Who knew? But hearing it from someone who can tell you how the addicted person hears your well-meaning–though perhaps misguided–words can be eye-opening. That’s what this conversation will do! And, share it with folks who are addicted and who have addicted family members, too. That could be just what could make all the difference and create a breakthrough for them! Big hugs,RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:Jennifer’s story of being lost in addictionHow Jennifer found her way back to sobrietyWhat family can do that’s helpful to an addicted family memberWhat families unwittingly do, thinking it helps an addicted personHow Jennifer Maneely’s learning to set boundaries helped end addictionOther ways to deal with the pain, shame, and guilt that leads to depression and addiction GUEST: JENNIFER MANEELYJennifer Maneely is the founder of Maneely Consulting, Inc. a coaching firm with families who have loved ones in addiction or trauma related substance abuse. She works with the families to help them develop strategies and coach them on setting effective, supportive, and loving boundaries so that their loved ones can get the help they need, and the families don’t go down with them. Her work is informed by her own gut-wrenching journey through addiction. She knows what it takes for someone to become willing to get the help they need. Going through this journey with her own family, she recognizes the need for the families to get support too.JENNIFER MANEELY’S GIFT FOR YOU:ebook: Dear Parents: Strategies To Help Your Loved One Through Addiction https://www.maneelyconsulting.com/dear-parentsCONNECT WITH MY GUEST: JENNIFER MANEELYWEBSITE:  https://www.ManeelyConsulting.com PODCAST:  FACEBOOK:  https://www.facebook.com/jenniferyouarenotaloneYOUTUBE:  https://bit.ly/jenschannelINSTAGRAM: LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-maneely-07183565TWITTER: ——————————————————————————————————————————–Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER! I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Relationship Help Support Circles  ———————————————————————-#goingthroughaddiction #jennifermaneely #addicted #whatsitliketobeaddicted #overcomingaddiction #helpingfamiliescopewithaddiction #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ever wonder why it feels like you’re hitting your head against a titanium wall when you try to make a #narcissist see your point? Or, wonder why a #narcissistic #Hijackal does not understand the concept of constructive criticism? It will all be much clearer when you listen to this episode, I promise! When I say that this is a little-known reason that you must know, I mean it! Understand these mindset differences may be the final piece you need to accept the futility of arguing with, reasoning with, or making constructive requests of a #narcissist. At least, things may get significantly clearer when you think of them this way. I hope so. Big hugs!RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:Why #narcissists cannot see your pointWhy #narcissists refuse to accept criticismTwo opposing mindsets in one relationship that cannot make it workWhy a fixed mindset keeps #Hijackals stuckWhy you cannot change the mind of a #narcissistUnderstanding these two points of view will clarify why #Hijackal relationships are so difficultHow knowing this can help you clarify your best next steps in a toxic relationship Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShalerYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Saturday Support Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler’s Relationship Help Circles. 50% off your first month. . Safely off social media.———————————————————————-#narcissistichijackals #narcissistsdontchange #whynarcissistsdontchange #fixedmindset #growthmindset #caroldweck #whyanarcissistwontchange #stoparguingwithnarcissists #youcantwinwithanarcissist #savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Sometimes, you might not recognize that old patterns are running in current feelings and experiences. That’s a great moment of realization because, starting then, life can consciously change. That’s powerful! Learning about Emotional Freedom Technique, also known as Tapping, gives you back some power to calm anxiety and change patterns. Deborah Miller works with energy through reiki, EMT, and coaching to help people recover. She has worked extensively with children suffering from cancer and their care-givers. Enjoy these new ideas! Big hugs,RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:Feedback loops that keep old emotional patterns aliveHow our experiences reflect our patterns and beliefsWays to make changes that empowerRecognizing past traumasWhat is Emotional Freedom Technique, aka TappingHow to avoid blame and shame when looking at your pastGUEST: DEBORAH MILLERDeborah Miller has a PhD in Cell and Molecular Biology and is a Trainer and expert in EFT Tapping, a Life Transformed CoachTM and internationally-renowned author. She guides people to gently release learned beliefs, habits, and traumas toward healthier choices creating calm, joy, and inner peace. Her unique blend of energy psychology, science, and spirituality enables her to teach easily learned principles providing relief and hope.Deborah authored “The Dragon with Flames of Love: Helping Children with Serious Illness Improve the Quality of Their Lives,” and co-authored “Emotional First-Aid for Children” helping children prevent challenging events from having traumatic effects. DEBORAH MILLER’S GIFT FOR YOU:EFT Tapping Guide to feel the vibration of Love within your bodyhttps://deborah-miller.myshopify.com/products/love-eft-tapping-guideCONNECT WITH MY GUEST: DEBORAH MILLER WEBSITE:  https://www.DeborahMiller.orgPODCAST: FACEBOOK:  https://www.facebook.com/deborah.miller YOUTUBE:  https://www.youtube.com/ddmiller777INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/Deborahdmiller7/LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-miller-9403b3/TWITTER: ——————————————————————————————————————————–Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER! I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Relationship Help Support Circles  ———————————————————————-#EFT #emotionalfreedomtechnique #deborahmiller #traumaandtapping #tappingtohelp #helpwithtrauma #tappingtostaycalm #replaceoldemotionalpatterns #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, or those with any of those tendencies are incapable of sincere apologies. In fact, they are also incapable of apologizing at all! That’s why they can only make a “near apology sounding” few words! Unsatisfying? Yes! Underwhelming? Yes. But, too many people buy into them because there hope is high. Today, I share with you all the things you need to know to squarely face the truth of a #Hijackal apology, and why you are unwise to be buying it! Big hugs!RhobertaHIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY’S EPISODE:Definition of a #fauxpologyWhy #narcissist’s apologies fall flatWhy #Hijackals are not sorryApologies as further manipulation and controlWhat makes a real apology and why you can’t get on from a narcissistHow fauxpologies are part of the abuse cycleWhat to keep in mind to not get hooked on the hope of a fauxpology Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.FOLLOW DR. SHALER…WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShalerYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp————————————————————-I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships. Join my Support Circles now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Saturday Support Calls with me.WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler’s Relationship Help Circles. 50% off your first month. . Safely off social media.———————————————————————-#fauxpology #fauxpologies #narcissisticapology #nonapologies #nonapology #narcissistsdontapologize #narcissistsdontchange #sorrynotsorry #narcissisticcrazymaking #hijackalapology #hijackalapologies #savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.