The Dark Duality of the Covert Narcissist
after narcissistic abuse, Covert Narcissist, depression, emotional abuse, Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life, gaslighting, healing, Linda Martinez-Lewi Ph.D., manipulation, mental health, mental illness, narcissism, narcissistic abuse, narcissistic abuse recovery, Narcissistic Personality, narcissistic personality disorder, Narcissists, NPD, overt narcissist, personality disorder, Personality Disorders, psychological abuse, Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist, The Narcissist In Your Life, toxic people, toxic personalities, trauma
VICTIM
Some apply such a mean-spirited duality to the way that they treat people. In fact, behind closed doors, some are actually BEYOND NARCISSISTIC and are SOCIOPATHIC. The behind-the back ways that a person who applies narcissistic duality is often to EXPLOIT, TO BLACKMAIL, and to SHAME. Have you ever met a person with a completely different PERSONALITY TOWARD THOSE WHO THEY SEEM TO ACCEPT, BUT HAVE A WHOLE WORLD OF SKELETONS IN THE CLOSET ABOUT THE PERSON/PEOPLE WHO HE/SHE CONTROLS? The Bible states “God is a Jealous God” but when jealousy is a drug to control a victim, I believe that NARCISSISTIC DUALITY and SOCIOPATHIC DUALITY are ways that more describe the person’s ability to communicate. People who use spyware to attack another’s technology (phones and computers) are sociopaths. People who ABSOLUTELY REFUSE COMMUNICATION but GO BEHIND A VICTIM’S BACK ARE A LITTLE BEYOND NARCISSISM IN THE PERSONALITY THEORY. I have been victim of technology hackers using spyware like I have been victim of a closer person who is actually controlled by the malicious things that she secretly cannot stop thinking about. In fact she is controlled by the apathetic things that she thinks of doing much like the abusers of technology using spyware.
VICTIM
THERE HAS TO BE A PERSON (WELL-LOVED AND ADORED BY A VICTIM OF NARCISSISTIC DUALITY) TO HELP THE VICTIM. WHETHER TAKING WALKS/HIKES, OR DOING SOMETHING FOR THE GOOD OF IT – NOT ALL CAN BELONG TO THE NARCISSIST. SOMEONE WHO HONESTLY LISTENS AND DOES NOT TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE VICTIM OF NARCISSISTIC DUALITY.