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How to Fight With or Litigate Against a Narcissist with Dr. Ramani Durvasula on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #213

Narcissists are the most difficult, toxic and high conflict personalities on the planet.   So when it comes to fighting with a narcissist, divorcing a narcissist, dealing with a narcissist in court, breaking up with one in either a romantic or business partnership, it’s downright hell.   Why?  Because narcissists fight dirty and there is no bar too low for them.  They’ll do whatever they think they can get away with and more.  Gaslighting, obstruction, triangulation, intimidation tactics and more are just a few of the things in their bag of tricks.   
In this very special episode, Rebecca Zung, Esq.  talks with the foremost authority in narcissism in the world, Dr. Ramani Durvasula.   Rebecca and Dr. Ramani are bringing together the power attorney and the power psychologist to form a power team so that they can bring you unbelievable content.   This is Part 2 of a 5 part series where they will be exploring How to Negotiate with a Narcissist in Divorce.   We give you usable information that you can implement and start using right now.  This episode was was originally published on Rebecca’s YouTube Channel (make sure to SUBSCRIBE HERE ).  
MORE ABOUT DR. RAMANI
Dr. Ramani Durvasula is on a mission to demystify and dismantle the toxic influence of narcissism on all of our lives. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Santa Monica and Sherman Oaks, CA and Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, where she was named Outstanding Professor in 2012. She is also a Visiting Professor at the University of Johannesburg.
She is the author of the modern relationship survival manual Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist (Post Hill Press) She is also the author of You Are WHY You Eat: Change Your Food Attitude, Change Your Life, as well as the author of numerous peer reviewed journal articles, book chapters and conference papers.  In September 2019, her overview book on narcissism in our world, our hearts, homes, and workplaces entitled DON’T YOU KNOW WHO I AM? How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement and Incivility will be released. 
Dr. Ramani received her B.S. in Psychology from the University of Connecticut, and her MA and Ph.D. degrees in Clinical Psychology from UCLA.
She brings a wealth of expertise in relationships, sexuality, health and wellness. Dr. Ramani was the co-host of Oxygen’s series My Shopping Addiction, and has also been featured on series on Bravo, the Lifetime Movie Network, National Geographic, the History Channel, Discovery Science, and Investigation Discovery as well as in documentary films on health and narcissism. She has been a featured commentator on nearly every major television network, as well as radio, print, and internet media.
Dr. Ramani is also involved in national governance in the field of psychology and has served as the chair of the Committee on Socioeconomic Status at the American Psychological Association and is presently chair of the Advisory Board of the Minority Fellowship Program of the American Psychological Association.
Dr. Ramani recognizes that narcissism and technology have changed the landscape of love and relationships and provides keen insights on how to survive in the new territory of love and commitment. 
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THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION: 
 
For more information, and to sign up for your free account with our Sponsor, visit HELLO DIVORCE.  Find out about their DIY option, which provides you with your own legal document assistant who will take you through the process from start to finish and even their on-call attorneys whose time can be purchased in 30-minute increments!  Hello Divorce has all the options to help you with an affordable, convenient and low-stress divorce!  Visit them at www.hellodivorce.com and be sure to tell them you heard about them on NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE WITH REBECCA ZUNG!
GET $50 OFF ANY HELLO DIVORCE SERVICE WITH THE CODE:   HELLO50
 
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For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca’a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
 
Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on “How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality” and “Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps”.
 
CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com
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Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
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Finally, we’d really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show – your feedback really matters 
DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

How to Fight With or Litigate Against a Narcissist with Dr. Ramani Durvasula on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #213

Narcissists are the most difficult, toxic and high conflict personalities on the planet.   So when it comes to fighting with a narcissist, divorcing a narcissist, dealing with a narcissist in court, breaking up with one in either a romantic or business partnership, it’s downright hell.   Why?  Because narcissists fight dirty and there is no bar too low for them.  They’ll do whatever they think they can get away with and more.  Gaslighting, obstruction, triangulation, intimidation tactics and more are just a few of the things in their bag of tricks.   
In this very special episode, Rebecca Zung, Esq.  talks with the foremost authority in narcissism in the world, Dr. Ramani Durvasula.   Rebecca and Dr. Ramani are bringing together the power attorney and the power psychologist to form a power team so that they can bring you unbelievable content.   This is Part 2 of a 5 part series where they will be exploring How to Negotiate with a Narcissist in Divorce.   We give you usable information that you can implement and start using right now.  This episode was was originally published on Rebecca’s YouTube Channel (make sure to SUBSCRIBE HERE ).  
MORE ABOUT DR. RAMANI
Dr. Ramani Durvasula is on a mission to demystify and dismantle the toxic influence of narcissism on all of our lives. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Santa Monica and Sherman Oaks, CA and Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, where she was named Outstanding Professor in 2012. She is also a Visiting Professor at the University of Johannesburg.
She is the author of the modern relationship survival manual Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist (Post Hill Press) She is also the author of You Are WHY You Eat: Change Your Food Attitude, Change Your Life, as well as the author of numerous peer reviewed journal articles, book chapters and conference papers.  In September 2019, her overview book on narcissism in our world, our hearts, homes, and workplaces entitled DON’T YOU KNOW WHO I AM? How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement and Incivility will be released. 
Dr. Ramani received her B.S. in Psychology from the University of Connecticut, and her MA and Ph.D. degrees in Clinical Psychology from UCLA.
She brings a wealth of expertise in relationships, sexuality, health and wellness. Dr. Ramani was the co-host of Oxygen’s series My Shopping Addiction, and has also been featured on series on Bravo, the Lifetime Movie Network, National Geographic, the History Channel, Discovery Science, and Investigation Discovery as well as in documentary films on health and narcissism. She has been a featured commentator on nearly every major television network, as well as radio, print, and internet media.
Dr. Ramani is also involved in national governance in the field of psychology and has served as the chair of the Committee on Socioeconomic Status at the American Psychological Association and is presently chair of the Advisory Board of the Minority Fellowship Program of the American Psychological Association.
Dr. Ramani recognizes that narcissism and technology have changed the landscape of love and relationships and provides keen insights on how to survive in the new territory of love and commitment. 
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THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION: 
 
For more information, and to sign up for your free account with our Sponsor, visit HELLO DIVORCE.  Find out about their DIY option, which provides you with your own legal document assistant who will take you through the process from start to finish and even their on-call attorneys whose time can be purchased in 30-minute increments!  Hello Divorce has all the options to help you with an affordable, convenient and low-stress divorce!  Visit them at www.hellodivorce.com and be sure to tell them you heard about them on NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE WITH REBECCA ZUNG!
GET $50 OFF ANY HELLO DIVORCE SERVICE WITH THE CODE:   HELLO50
 
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For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca’a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
 
Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on “How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality” and “Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps”.
 
CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com
…………………………………………………………………………………………………………
Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
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Finally, we’d really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show – your feedback really matters 
DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

“Negotiating and Navigating the Unknown” with Celebrity Psychic Laura Powers on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #212

Are you afraid of the unknown or what’s to come?  Does fear sometimes paralyze you?   In this very special episode, Rebecca Zung is talking with Celebrity Psychic Laura Powers, who walks us through how to read your intuition, how to feel what’s going to happen in your body, how the law of attraction and the power of intention plays into what she reads in people’s futures, and so much more. In this age of uncertainty, such as dealing with the pandemic, divorce, breakups, financial hardships, narcissists or other problems, having a resource to show you the light and how to navigate and negotiate uncharted waters is positively invaluable.  If you want to know what’s about to come in your life, this episode will help you figure that out.   
More About Laura Powers
Laura is an entertainer, celebrity psychic, actress, model, host, singer, writer, and speaker. She is the host of the popular film and television podcast, “Behind the Scenes with Laura Powers,” and her top 100 podcast on Apple Podcasts, “Healing Powers Podcast.” She is the author of 7 books and editing two other books that will be released in 2020. She travels full time for clients, television and other media appointments, and for the love of traveling. Laura has been featured on several television channels and networks including BuzzFeed, NBC, ABC, CBS, FOX, The CW, The Jet Set, and many others. She was recently interviewed by Will Ferrell on his podcast, “The Ron Burgundy Podcast.”
 
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THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION:  
For more information from our Sponsor BetterHelp.com Online Counseling, offering convenient and private online access to licensed therapists from the comfort of your own home, visit www.betterhelp.com/breakingfree  Listeners of the podcast will receive 10% off on their first month of counseling with discount code “BREAKINGFREE”!
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For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca’a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
 
Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on “How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality” and “Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps”.
 
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CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com
…………………………………………………………………………………………………………
Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
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Finally, we’d really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show – your feedback really matters 
DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

“Negotiating and Navigating the Unknown” with Celebrity Psychic Laura Powers on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #212

Are you afraid of the unknown or what’s to come?  Does fear sometimes paralyze you?   In this very special episode, Rebecca Zung is talking with Celebrity Psychic Laura Powers, who walks us through how to read your intuition, how to feel what’s going to happen in your body, how the law of attraction and the power of intention plays into what she reads in people’s futures, and so much more. In this age of uncertainty, such as dealing with the pandemic, divorce, breakups, financial hardships, narcissists or other problems, having a resource to show you the light and how to navigate and negotiate uncharted waters is positively invaluable.  If you want to know what’s about to come in your life, this episode will help you figure that out.   
More About Laura Powers
Laura is an entertainer, celebrity psychic, actress, model, host, singer, writer, and speaker. She is the host of the popular film and television podcast, “Behind the Scenes with Laura Powers,” and her top 100 podcast on Apple Podcasts, “Healing Powers Podcast.” She is the author of 7 books and editing two other books that will be released in 2020. She travels full time for clients, television and other media appointments, and for the love of traveling. Laura has been featured on several television channels and networks including BuzzFeed, NBC, ABC, CBS, FOX, The CW, The Jet Set, and many others. She was recently interviewed by Will Ferrell on his podcast, “The Ron Burgundy Podcast.”
 
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THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION:  
For more information from our Sponsor BetterHelp.com Online Counseling, offering convenient and private online access to licensed therapists from the comfort of your own home, visit www.betterhelp.com/breakingfree  Listeners of the podcast will receive 10% off on their first month of counseling with discount code “BREAKINGFREE”!
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca’a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
 
Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on “How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality” and “Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps”.
 
_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________
CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com
…………………………………………………………………………………………………………
Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Instagram
Finally, we’d really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show – your feedback really matters 
DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

“Why is Negotiating with a Narcissist So Difficult?” with Dr. Ramani Durvasula on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #211

Negotiating with a narcissist?  We know that’s beyond difficult, maybe it even feels impossible!   But why?  Why do they do what they do?  In this very special episode, Rebecca Zung, Esq.  talks with the foremost authority in narcissism in the world, Dr. Ramani Durvasula.   Rebecca and Dr. Ramani are bringing together the power attorney and the power psychologist to form a power team so that they can bring you unbelievable content.   This is the first part of a 5 part series where they will be exploring How to Negotiate with a Narcissist in Divorce.   In this episode, they discuss the kinds of things narcissists do in divorce, the 3 types of narcissists, how each of them behave in divorce, and more importantly, what you can do about it.  We give you usable information that you can implement and start using right now.  This episode was was originally published on Rebecca’s YouTube Channel (make sure to SUBSCRIBE HERE if you haven’t).  
MORE ABOUT DR. RAMANI
Dr. Ramani Durvasula is on a mission to demystify and dismantle the toxic influence of narcissism on all of our lives. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Santa Monica and Sherman Oaks, CA and Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, where she was named Outstanding Professor in 2012. She is also a Visiting Professor at the University of Johannesburg.
She is the author of the modern relationship survival manual Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist (Post Hill Press) She is also the author of You Are WHY You Eat: Change Your Food Attitude, Change Your Life, as well as the author of numerous peer reviewed journal articles, book chapters and conference papers.  In September 2019, her overview book on narcissism in our world, our hearts, homes, and workplaces entitled DON’T YOU KNOW WHO I AM? How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement and Incivility will be released. 
Dr. Ramani received her B.S. in Psychology from the University of Connecticut, and her MA and Ph.D. degrees in Clinical Psychology from UCLA.
She brings a wealth of expertise in relationships, sexuality, health and wellness. Dr. Ramani was the co-host of Oxygen’s series My Shopping Addiction, and has also been featured on series on Bravo, the Lifetime Movie Network, National Geographic, the History Channel, Discovery Science, and Investigation Discovery as well as in documentary films on health and narcissism. She has been a featured commentator on nearly every major television network, as well as radio, print, and internet media.
Dr. Ramani is also involved in national governance in the field of psychology and has served as the chair of the Committee on Socioeconomic Status at the American Psychological Association and is presently chair of the Advisory Board of the Minority Fellowship Program of the American Psychological Association.
Dr. Ramani recognizes that narcissism and technology have changed the landscape of love and relationships and provides keen insights on how to survive in the new territory of love and commitment. 
______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
 
THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION: 
 
For more information, and to sign up for your free account with our Sponsor, visit HELLO DIVORCE.  Find out about their DIY option, which provides you with your own legal document assistant who will take you through the process from start to finish and even their on-call attorneys whose time can be purchased in 30-minute increments!  Hello Divorce has all the options to help you with an affordable, convenient and low-stress divorce!  Visit them at www.hellodivorce.com and be sure to tell them you heard about them on NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE WITH REBECCA ZUNG!
GET $50 OFF ANY HELLO DIVORCE SERVICE WITH THE CODE:   HELLO50
 
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For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca’a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
 
Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on “How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality” and “Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps”.
 
CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com
…………………………………………………………………………………………………………
Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Instagram
Finally, we’d really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show – your feedback really matters 
DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

“Why is Negotiating with a Narcissist So Difficult?” with Dr. Ramani Durvasula on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #211

Negotiating with a narcissist?  We know that’s beyond difficult, maybe it even feels impossible!   But why?  Why do they do what they do?  In this very special episode, Rebecca Zung, Esq.  talks with the foremost authority in narcissism in the world, Dr. Ramani Durvasula.   Rebecca and Dr. Ramani are bringing together the power attorney and the power psychologist to form a power team so that they can bring you unbelievable content.   This is the first part of a 5 part series where they will be exploring How to Negotiate with a Narcissist in Divorce.   In this episode, they discuss the kinds of things narcissists do in divorce, the 3 types of narcissists, how each of them behave in divorce, and more importantly, what you can do about it.  We give you usable information that you can implement and start using right now.  This episode was was originally published on Rebecca’s YouTube Channel (make sure to SUBSCRIBE HERE if you haven’t).  
MORE ABOUT DR. RAMANI
Dr. Ramani Durvasula is on a mission to demystify and dismantle the toxic influence of narcissism on all of our lives. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Santa Monica and Sherman Oaks, CA and Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, where she was named Outstanding Professor in 2012. She is also a Visiting Professor at the University of Johannesburg.
She is the author of the modern relationship survival manual Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist (Post Hill Press) She is also the author of You Are WHY You Eat: Change Your Food Attitude, Change Your Life, as well as the author of numerous peer reviewed journal articles, book chapters and conference papers.  In September 2019, her overview book on narcissism in our world, our hearts, homes, and workplaces entitled DON’T YOU KNOW WHO I AM? How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement and Incivility will be released. 
Dr. Ramani received her B.S. in Psychology from the University of Connecticut, and her MA and Ph.D. degrees in Clinical Psychology from UCLA.
She brings a wealth of expertise in relationships, sexuality, health and wellness. Dr. Ramani was the co-host of Oxygen’s series My Shopping Addiction, and has also been featured on series on Bravo, the Lifetime Movie Network, National Geographic, the History Channel, Discovery Science, and Investigation Discovery as well as in documentary films on health and narcissism. She has been a featured commentator on nearly every major television network, as well as radio, print, and internet media.
Dr. Ramani is also involved in national governance in the field of psychology and has served as the chair of the Committee on Socioeconomic Status at the American Psychological Association and is presently chair of the Advisory Board of the Minority Fellowship Program of the American Psychological Association.
Dr. Ramani recognizes that narcissism and technology have changed the landscape of love and relationships and provides keen insights on how to survive in the new territory of love and commitment. 
______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
 
THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION: 
 
For more information, and to sign up for your free account with our Sponsor, visit HELLO DIVORCE.  Find out about their DIY option, which provides you with your own legal document assistant who will take you through the process from start to finish and even their on-call attorneys whose time can be purchased in 30-minute increments!  Hello Divorce has all the options to help you with an affordable, convenient and low-stress divorce!  Visit them at www.hellodivorce.com and be sure to tell them you heard about them on NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE WITH REBECCA ZUNG!
GET $50 OFF ANY HELLO DIVORCE SERVICE WITH THE CODE:   HELLO50
 
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca’a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
 
Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on “How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality” and “Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps”.
 
CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com
…………………………………………………………………………………………………………
Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Instagram
Finally, we’d really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show – your feedback really matters 
DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

S.L.A.Y. Your Negotiation With a Narcissist on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #210

Are you getting ready to negotiate with a narcissist and feeling defeated, powerless, and paralyzed?   Negotiating in any scenario is difficult for most people, but when you’re dealing with a narcissist, it can seem like an impossible task.   How can you actually get what you want from a personality that seemingly does whatever they want, who never abides by the rules, who uses manipulation and intimidation to get what they want?   Yes, it actually is possible.   In this week’s episode, host Rebecca Zung, an attorney who has been recognized and honored by venerated organizations such as U.S. News, Trend Magazine and National Association of Distinguished Counsel as one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the country, shares the secret formula she has honed in her over 20 years of practicing divorce law.   She has dealt with the most highly contentious cases and the most high conflict personality and throughout that time, has developed a framework, a GPS and methodology that show you how to stop being a victim to their narcissistic rage, gaslighting, and trauma, by turning the tables and being the one to control the process and drive the outcome you want.  If you are ready to go on the offensive, instead of being on the defensive, take a listen to this episode.   
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THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION:  
For more information from our Sponsor BetterHelp.com Online Counseling, offering convenient and private online access to licensed therapists from the comfort of your own home, visit www.betterhelp.com/breakingfree  Listeners of the podcast will receive 10% off on their first month of counseling with discount code “BREAKINGFREE”!
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For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca’a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
 
Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on “How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality” and “Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps”.
 
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CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com
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DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

S.L.A.Y. Your Negotiation With a Narcissist on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #210

Are you getting ready to negotiate with a narcissist and feeling defeated, powerless, and paralyzed?   Negotiating in any scenario is difficult for most people, but when you’re dealing with a narcissist, it can seem like an impossible task.   How can you actually get what you want from a personality that seemingly does whatever they want, who never abides by the rules, who uses manipulation and intimidation to get what they want?   Yes, it actually is possible.   In this week’s episode, host Rebecca Zung, an attorney who has been recognized and honored by venerated organizations such as U.S. News, Trend Magazine and National Association of Distinguished Counsel as one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the country, shares the secret formula she has honed in her over 20 years of practicing divorce law.   She has dealt with the most highly contentious cases and the most high conflict personality and throughout that time, has developed a framework, a GPS and methodology that show you how to stop being a victim to their narcissistic rage, gaslighting, and trauma, by turning the tables and being the one to control the process and drive the outcome you want.  If you are ready to go on the offensive, instead of being on the defensive, take a listen to this episode.   
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THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION:  
For more information from our Sponsor BetterHelp.com Online Counseling, offering convenient and private online access to licensed therapists from the comfort of your own home, visit www.betterhelp.com/breakingfree  Listeners of the podcast will receive 10% off on their first month of counseling with discount code “BREAKINGFREE”!
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For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca’a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
 
Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on “How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality” and “Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps”.
 
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CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com
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Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
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Finally, we’d really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show – your feedback really matters 
DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

“Let Go or Be Dragged” with Ben Kiker on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #209

Are you having trouble letting go of anything?  Toxic people, narcissists, or high conflict personalities? Toxic Relationships?  Feeling stuck?   Rebecca Zung talks with Executive Coach and Master of Getting Unstuck, Ben Kiker.   He goes over:
* What does letting go mean? 
* What is your “insane thought generator”? And how it isn’t serving you? 
* How to get let of your need for security?
* How to let go of your need for approval? 
* How to let go of your need for control?  
* How to let go of your financial insecurity? 
* How to let go of your fear of losing what you have?
* How to let of your fear of not getting what you want?
There are so many things that we all struggle with trying to let go of.   Yet, letting go is absolutely essential for us to be able to move on and live our best lives.   Ben gives you several easy to implement, immediately actionable ways to start letting go today.   If you don’t want to be dragged down by your baggage, and you’re ready to let it all go, this episode is absolutely essential for you.   
More About Ben:
Ben is the founder and CEO of the Ben Kiker Group, which provides transformative business, executive, and recovery coaching services. A transformation is a profound shift resulting in lasting change, and we work with clients to create conditions that lead to meaningful, lasting change. A former chief marketing officer of notable Silicon Valley technology companies, Ben’s energy and passion for helping people get into action – and build resiliency to stay in action – has sparked transformative change in people around the world. To learn more, please visit www.thebenkikergroup.com, connect with Ben on LinkedIn, or follow Ben on Instagram.
 
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THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION: 
 
For more information, and to sign up for your free account with our Sponsor, visit HELLO DIVORCE.  Find out about their DIY option, which provides you with your own legal document assistant who will take you through the process from start to finish and even their on-call attorneys whose time can be purchased in 30-minute increments!  Hello Divorce has all the options to help you with an affordable, convenient and low-stress divorce!  Visit them at www.hellodivorce.com and be sure to tell them you heard about them on NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE WITH REBECCA ZUNG!
GET $50 OFF ANY HELLO DIVORCE SERVICE WITH THE CODE:   HELLO50
 
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For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca’a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
 
Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on “How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality” and “Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps”.
 
CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com
…………………………………………………………………………………………………………
Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
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Finally, we’d really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show – your feedback really matters 
DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

“Let Go or Be Dragged” with Ben Kiker on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #209

Are you having trouble letting go of anything?  Toxic people, narcissists, or high conflict personalities? Toxic Relationships?  Feeling stuck?   Rebecca Zung talks with Executive Coach and Master of Getting Unstuck, Ben Kiker.   He goes over:
* What does letting go mean? 
* What is your “insane thought generator”? And how it isn’t serving you? 
* How to get let of your need for security?
* How to let go of your need for approval? 
* How to let go of your need for control?  
* How to let go of your financial insecurity? 
* How to let go of your fear of losing what you have?
* How to let of your fear of not getting what you want?
There are so many things that we all struggle with trying to let go of.   Yet, letting go is absolutely essential for us to be able to move on and live our best lives.   Ben gives you several easy to implement, immediately actionable ways to start letting go today.   If you don’t want to be dragged down by your baggage, and you’re ready to let it all go, this episode is absolutely essential for you.   
More About Ben:
Ben is the founder and CEO of the Ben Kiker Group, which provides transformative business, executive, and recovery coaching services. A transformation is a profound shift resulting in lasting change, and we work with clients to create conditions that lead to meaningful, lasting change. A former chief marketing officer of notable Silicon Valley technology companies, Ben’s energy and passion for helping people get into action – and build resiliency to stay in action – has sparked transformative change in people around the world. To learn more, please visit www.thebenkikergroup.com, connect with Ben on LinkedIn, or follow Ben on Instagram.
 
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THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR INFORMATION: 
 
For more information, and to sign up for your free account with our Sponsor, visit HELLO DIVORCE.  Find out about their DIY option, which provides you with your own legal document assistant who will take you through the process from start to finish and even their on-call attorneys whose time can be purchased in 30-minute increments!  Hello Divorce has all the options to help you with an affordable, convenient and low-stress divorce!  Visit them at www.hellodivorce.com and be sure to tell them you heard about them on NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE WITH REBECCA ZUNG!
GET $50 OFF ANY HELLO DIVORCE SERVICE WITH THE CODE:   HELLO50
 
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For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!
GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! 
SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. 
HOT NEWS!  Make sure to grab a copy of Rebecca’a BRAND NEW BOOK, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro).   It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched!  Find out what everyone is so excited about – get the book RIGHT HERE! 

To get your copy of Rebecca’s bestselling book, Breaking Free: A Step by Step Guide to Achieving Emotional, Physical and Spiritual Freedom, please visit the Amazon website to order it RIGHT HERE.   
 
Rebecca also is available for keynote speeches, and speaks around the country on “How to Successfully Negotiate With a High Conflict Personality” and “Win Any Negotiation in Just 6 Steps”.
 
CONTACT US:  rebecca@rebeccazung.com
WEBSITE:   www.negotiateyourbestlifepodcast.com
…………………………………………………………………………………………………………
Remember to follow THE NEGOTIATE YOUR BEST LIFE PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Instagram
Finally, we’d really appreciate it if you would visit iTunes and give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show – your feedback really matters 
DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

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