Tag: Life Coaching

In this episode we discuss the effects of being raised in a toxic and dysfunctional home and the cost it takes on our consciousness. When a child has been groomed to worry more about their parents emotions than their own, they become adults who do not know how they feel. Many abused adult and emotionally neglected children spend lifetimes seeking relief and a sense of peace. My clients are those who have been sold a set of false beliefs that are self-destructive.

All human beings are born asleep. The human mind is more unconscious than it is conscious. The brain has been designed to run on auto-pilot. The Default Mode Network in the brain will operate whether you are enlightened or not. My goal as a Life Coach and thought leader is to help people awaken from the false set of beliefs they were taught to believe in as children so they can tap into their truest human potential. If you were raised to believe you were not good enough, it is time to awaken from this faulty dream. Consciousness, contentment and joy are your birthright!

If you are someone who often feels stuck this episode is for you. Do you feel stuck in your career, in your relationships, or in life? Do you feel stuck emotionally and spiritually? If so, it may be because you have some attachments that you need to release.

When we fail to raise our consciousness and expand our visualizations, we stay stuck in the 3D world. Everything that we experience in the feeling realm is meant to be embraced. What most people do is deny, suppress, or avoid painful emotions. What we resist persists. What we think we are avoiding is actually gaining ‘weight’ in the energetic body. We are stuck because we are not off-loading negative emotions caused by early childhood trauma, negative beliefs patterns and programs.

In this episode, you will learn more about living in a state of nonresistance which asks for us to embrace ALL of our experiences through the seat of the observer. Learning to observe our emotions rather than react to them accelerates our personal growth in all areas.

Narcissistic abuse is a form of projection. Narcissists project aspects of their personality upon others. Narcissists can abuse victims sexually, emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially. They are members of society that would rather eat than be eaten, and sadly, assume everyone is out to get them, which makes them highly toxic at work, at home and in relationships.

Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional and psychological abuse. If you are a victim of narcissistic abuse, you FEEL it. You may not be able to look in the mirror and see a blackeye staring back at you, but you will FEEL it and because narcissists use word salads to confuse their victims, you will doubt you feel what you feel or even have a right to feel what you feel.

In this episode, we dig deeper into the effects of narcissistic abuse, especially since narcissism is on the rise. If you have high empathy or if you suffer from codependency, you are a target for those who lack boundaries and have a deep need to rescue and help heal others.

Healing anxiety and fear is absolutely necessary in order to connect more deeply with the spiritual self. Codependency is rooted in the fear of not being enough. Healing codependency hinges on our ability to understand the CAUSATION of our fear of unworthiness. As we learn to understand how our brain is wired to seek validation, we also understand that our brain is conditioned to fear NOT being validated. This sets us up for complete failure. It is unhealthy to seek validation and it is unhealthy to live in neutral and in fear of not gaining external validation.

This podcast has been created to help you more deeply learn to transcend old negative limiting beliefs, and allow you to more deeply connect to the intelligence of your divine inner self. Your thinking is a product of the external world. It is NOT you. You are the observer of negative limiting beliefs. You are the observer of codependent traits. You are the awareness of the world around you.

May this episode help you feel more trusting of the Divinity you are.

This podcast has been created to help inspire abused adult children from alcoholic and narcissistic homes, as well as anyone who wishes to understand more about psychological invisibility. As a society, we must learn to appreciate invisible wounds created in childhood. All children eventually become adults who must learn to manage their own lives. The less nurturing our childhood homes, the more we struggle later on in life and that is just a fact.

It is my hope, that understanding CAUSATION will help anyone suffering from depression, anxiety, codependency, self-doubt, addiction and alike, who have also come from a home that felt unloving, was abusive, chaotic and unpredictable, will allow them to better understand themselves. Once we understand WHY we feel the way we feel, healing take place at a much faster rate. The cure for the disease of invisibility is to finally begin seeing the self.

It is not your fault if you grew up in a home that lacked respect, terrorized children, or ignored the little ones. However, to be successful we must be willing to acknowledge our pain and do all we can to heal so we can achieve happiness, contentment and joy. Knowing it was not us, it was just our programming that needed to be corrected, eases us along the healing path.

If you suffer from codependency you are a target for narcissists. Codependency is rooted in emotional neglect as well as unpredictability in households. Children who were raised in alcoholic, narcissistic, abusive, neglectful, chaotic homes develop an array of emotional as well as physical issues. One personality trait that develops is codependency.

Codependents offer suffer from abandonment trauma. As adults, we seek to ‘bond and attach’ to others in unhealthy ways. Because we crave to feel seen, we become ‘other-focused’. As a result, we attract ‘self-focused’ others who often have high narcissistic traits. Because codependents are often groomed to cater to the needs of others, as adults we ‘act out’ this fawning and people-pleasing to those who feel entitled to be the center of someone else’s world.

I hope this episode on this type of toxic relationship inspires you to consider healing any codependent beliefs and patterns of behaviors in you. You are enough and you are worthy of a healthy relationship in spite of your past.

Narcissism is on the rise. If you have been involved in a narcissistic relationship you may be struggling to find your mental and emotional balance. In this episode, I will discuss signs of narcissism as well as the symptoms victims of narcissistic abuse experience. Confusion and negative self-talk are just two of the symptoms of narcissistic abuse victims experiences.

It is important to understand WHY we feel the way we do. Once we understand the causation of our symptoms, it is far easier to heal. I hope this episode helps you feel less alone and more inspired to believe recovery is possible.

It is not your fault if you have been love-bombed by someone with the intention or the disposition to abuse and exploit others. It is not your fault if your kindness has been unfairly abused. It is not your fault if your mind has been turned against itself by someone who has no empathy for others. 

It is time to reclaim your power by learning to understand more about how narcissistic abuse impacts their victims and what you need to know in order to recover from this type of psychological abuse. 

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In this episode we discuss the traits of Empaths and why these amazing qualities make us targets for narcissistic abuse. Empaths process the world through the ‘feeling space’. We crave alone time and enjoy deep conversations. A narcissist is someone who will exploit our desire to connect more deeply with others. Narcissistic people love that an empath will want to take care of them, rescue them, and easily forgive them.

Those of us who take on the feelings of others often fail to recognize how commonplace it is for us to feel drained. We are natural healers, listeners, and nurturers. When we come across a wounded soul like a narcissist, we can easily wish to help heal them. We believe all they need is to be loved, cared for and understood. What we DON’T realize is, sadly, someone with high narcissistic traits is unable, while unconscious to reciprocate empathy.

If you are an empath or someone who easily enmeshes with people due to your high level of empathy, this podcast is for you.

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