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Empaths – Beware of Predatory Narcissists

Predatory narcissists are beautifully packaged, have great social skills, charisma, mirror you and make you feel special.

Sequence of predatory narcissists in controlling you:

Engage you and show great interest in you, very friendly.

Activate the relationship

Exploit you completely – taking your time, energy, your creative gifts, making constant demands, wearing you out, humiliating you.

They will reactivate this relationship and re-exploit you many times over years and decades. 

Eventually the narcissist will discard you with a newer, compliant model. You are not an individual to them. You are a commodity they use to feed their egos and fulfill their outrageous goals. 

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High Level Narcissists – Ultimate Takers, Dissemblers

High level narcissists are dissemblers, filled with patterns of deceit and corruption. They conceal the truth from you at every turn. As the partner, spouse or child of a high level narcissist, you can only expect lies and purposeful obfuscations from these individuals. 

Some of the things that the high level takes from you:

Your inner peace and sense of solitude.

Eclipse the amount of time that you can spend in the calming restorative parasympathetic body/mind systems where you experience healing and transformation.

Making continuous demands for keeping their fragile egos inflated with constant praise, adulation, obedience, unlimited attention, gratitude, veneration. 

High level narcissists are dissemblers who despise the truth. Constructing elaborate lies and obfuscations are the methods that they use to continue to rise up to their over the top positions of power and influence. 

High levels put untold pressures on you to compromise your well developed conscience. 

High level narcissists are envious of your creative gifts. Sometimes they lift your original concepts and exploit them for their own purposes. 

High levels wear you down with multiple humiliations that they know will compromise you psychologically and emotionally. 

Ultimately you can never be your true self partnered with a high level narcissist. They are incapable of developing meaningful, empathic, loving relationships. 

At a point of deep insight you decide to move forward as an independent, free, creative, grounded person, steeped in your own wisdom, psychological stamina unique individuality. 

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“Should I Stay or Should I Go?” with Kate Anthony on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #278

Are you in any kind of relationship (personal or biz) where you are wondering if you should stay or go?   Maybe you’re feeling something in your gut but it’s so complicated and sometimes even paralyzing.   There is so much to consider.   Kate Anthony has taken her extensive background in coaching, neuroscience, emotional intelligence training and her other tools and has developed a system.   This decision can often change the entire trajectory of your life so you want to be sure you’re making the right choice.  Tune in to find out how to do that.  

More About Kate Anthony

Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed podcast “The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast” and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support and deep self-work.  

Kate spent 3 years and over 500 hours training in various coaching modalities with two of the top coach training organizations in the world, and is widely known as an expert in communication and emotional intelligence.  

Follow Kate on Instagram at @thedivorcesurvivalguide

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For Empaths – Learning to Trust Yourself and Others

The beginnings of trust occur very early in a child’s life. The baby, especially the empath, senses whether he/she can depend on his/her mother or father to feel safe, secure, valued, psychologically grounded.

With a narcissistic mother you treaded lightly, always waiting for her to blow like a bubbling volcano. 

You took on the burden of your parents’ core psychological issues and tried to solve their problems so that you could have a real family. You were the fixer and the little child grownup. 

There comes a time of clarity when you recognize that you can no longer play the role of family fixer. 

This is your moment of independence, self care and transformation. 

Keep company with yourself; get to know and appreciate who you are as an individual. This is a time of solitude and resfulness. 

Trust your deep intuition. 

Rest, rest, rest. 

Movement and exercise that works for you.

Listen to restorative beautiful music. Spend time with Nature. 

Good nutrition and hydration.  

Activate and honor your creativity.

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Special Messages for Empaths in Days of Chaos

Some days empaths don’t get much done. They are criticized for not being productive. Empaths are unique in their high sensitivity and keen perceptions and intuitions. 

Empaths are considered very strange by most people. 

Empaths go through periods of insomnia and sometimes it’s chronic. If you can’t sleep, rest and be patient with yourself. Practice diaphragmatic breathing. 

Eat organic food if possible, hydrate with pure water. Listen to beautiful music.  Move and exercise.  

Embrace your individuality as an empath. 

“Becoming a Universal Human” with Gary Zukav on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #277

Are you so ready to live your most authentic and connected life?  Feeling at ease and at peace seems impossible especially when negotiating with narcissists.   In this episode, we get to hear from one of Rebecca’s absolute favorite authors.  Gary Zukav is the spiritual teacher who has appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show more than 30 times to discuss transformation in human consciousness concepts presented in his book The Seat of the Soul. His reverent and humble presence, his spiritual wisdom have inspired millions to realize their soul’s greatest potential.  In this episode, he reveals how to be active in your own awakening and becoming, by being more engaged everyday activities and all of our relationships with meaning and purpose. 

In this episode, he shares:

How he went from being an angry Green Beret who hated the world to becoming one of the most revered spiritual teachers of our time

What is means to align your human frailties to your soul’s true purpose here on Earth

What authentic power is and how it is connected to reverence.

How to have authentic power (yes, even with narcissists!) 

Make sure to put listening to this episode at the very top of your to-do list.   There is nothing more important than becoming the biggest, best version of yourself.  

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More About Gary Zukav

Gary is the author of four consecutive New York Times bestsellers, including the legendary #1 New York Times bestseller The Seat of the Soul. This book led the way to seeing the alignment of the personality and the soul as the fulfillment of life, and captured the imagination of millions. He is also the author of The Dancing Wu Li Masters: An Overview of the New Physics, which plumbed the depths of quantum physics and relativity, winning The American Book Award for Science. His books have sold six million copies and are published in thirty-two languages. Over and over, he challenges us to see the depth of our potential in the world…and act on that awareness. Gary’s newest book, Universal Human, will be published at the summer Solstice on June 22, 2021. This book is about the new era of human evolution and offers a vision of what a world based on love could be, and an invitation to begin bringing such a world into being now. Gary grew up in the Midwest, graduated from Harvard, and became a Special Forces (Green Beret) officer with Vietnam service before writing his first book. His gentle presence, humor, and wisdom have endeared millions of viewers through appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show. Gary gives talks and facilitates programs on authentic power with his spiritual partner, Linda Francis.

Follow Gary on Instagram:  @gary_zukav

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BEING TOO NICE IS WHY TOXIC PEOPLE Think They CAN ABUSE YOU

Many of us have been programmed to deny the self for the sake of others happiness, leading to codependency, selflessness, hopelessness, a lack of self love and things like depression. The more selfless we are, the more toxic people think they can abuse us. In this episode, Life Coach Lisa A. Romano helps you understand why you need to stop being so nice. Online Codependency Recovery Program https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp YouTube Channel http://bit.ly/32zOvUh Instagram @lisaaromano Contact support.coach@lisaaromano.co Facebook Support Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultchildrenofalcoholics/

High Level Narcissist – Exploiter Extraordinaire

High level narcissists spend their days exploiting others. This is their style and their deep need to take advantage of every relationship: spouses, partners, ex-spouses, children. 

When you are partnered with a high level narcissist this individual interferes with the expression of your individuality and creativity.

1. You become part of the Image that defines them as special and superior to others. The narcissist expects you to mirror his/her perfection.  For the narcissist image is reality.  This insistence interferes with the development of your individuality. 

2. With your fine character you make the high level narcissist look very good. .The high level uses your character as a vehicle for twining with you. 

3. High levels are often attracted to empaths.  Empaths are highly intuitive and experience a deep understanding and appreciation for the feelings of others. Again, the empath is often very forgiving and will stay with the high level despite how badly they are treated.. 

4.  High level narcissists ride high on your unique creativity and some of them exploit your creativity ideas. They are unwilling to give your many creative gifts. 

AT a point of awakening you recognize that you  can no longer be manipulated and controlled by the high level narcissist. You have done the research about the true nature of the narcissistic personality. . Your wisdom and deep insights have brought you to the recognition and decision that you are moving forward to separate from the level narcissist and put yourself first. 

Give yourself so much credit for appreciating who you are as an authentic, empathic, creative, individual. You are persevering, grounded, have many gifts and are moving along the pathways of the authentic original self.  

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“From Transition to Transformation” with Shannon Graham on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #276

Do you feel like you are meant for more but not sure how to get there?  Maybe you’re making big transitions and changes in your life and it is super scary to figure out how to use this as an opportunity for transformation.  If you’re struggling with toxic people or narcissists in your life and you just feel like you are being held back but not sure what steps to take or how to take control of your life, then tune in to this episode.   Shannon Graham went from being homeless and suicidal to coaching some of the most powerful people in the world.    He shares exactly how he did it and how you can do it too in this powerful episode.   

More About Shannon Graham

Shannon Graham is the world’s top for visionary leaders who want to change the world by doing the impossible. His work has done everything from raise the GDP of an entire country, revolutionizing immigration, and helping end video game addiction.  Through his work he aims to create an unprecedented civilization where the world enjoys more peace prosperity and expansion.  More about Shannon right here:  https://www.shannongraham.com

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